Bar Tactics: How To Flirt With And Pick Up Girls At Bars

by Dean “The Machine” Cortez

Are you familiar with some techniques on how to pick up girls you like without appearing like a total fool? For men who do not have a lot of experience when it comes to women, things can be a tad difficult but once you understand everything it becomes easier thereafter. These tactics I am about to share with you have their underpinnings on the psychology of women.

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How To Pick Up Chicks At Bars

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Show Social Value

Never approach a girl directly and introduce yourself before this step. You must first create massive amounts of attraction and the only way to do this is for you to display your personality, charisma and social skills in general. To put it simply, you have to display traits that attract women. One way of doing this is by making sure your friends are enjoying your company; greet bartenders and waitresses you know; say hi to people you know in the room.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Let Your Attraction Be Obvious

If you think that by being that nice guy and showering a girl with too much attention, you’re turning her on, you’ve been misinformed. Here’s a question for you, why do players get to sleep with the hot girls in the bar? I’m not saying that you have to a jerk. Just give her an impression that you want to chat with her but if she’s not digging it, you’re cool with it. If you’ve displayed your social value well, she would know that even she doesn’t talk to you, it’s not your loss. This is because she has witnessed how everybody loves your company and anyone would love to talk to you. Instead of being the pursuer, you just made yourself the prize.

One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here’s a great example:

“Hey, I know you’re having fun with your friends so I don’t want to take too much of your time. I saw you a while ago and I just thought you look stunning in that dress. So I thought I’d say Hi”.

She will smile and thank you for the compliment, do as you said and leave afterwhich.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: Make Use of Neutral or Flirt Openers

Neutral openers are the opposite of flirt openers. It requires you to observe the girl you want to approach a girl and formulate a question, comment or compliment based on that observation.

When you use neutral openers you give the girl an impression that you appreciate her and what she has to say about things. The objective is to make her talk more. Women like it when they meet a guy who doesn’t see them as someone he can have a one night stand with. Don’t get me wrong, for some this might be their goal but the point is, you don’t make it obvious. Otherwise, you’ll be rejected right off the bat. If you want to call these rituals it’s okay but the truth is women warm up to these strategies easily.

Furthermore, before you use flirt openers, make sure you’re confident with your game. If you’re positive that the girl is crazy about you, using flirt openers won’t be a problem. If you think that you can use flirt openers with ease and success, it may mean that you’re already a rockstar when it comes to seduction and macking.

A few nights ago my friend Hunter and I went to a super popular bar in LA. The joint was jam-packed with hot chicks. There were clearly plenty of model-type girls, strippers, and I even spotted a porn star I recognized…

I’m talking about the type of super-hot girls that blow guys off all night long. Guys will literally line up to try to buy these chicks drinks. (They NEVER have to pay for their own drinks when they go out. I know hot chicks who don’t even bother to bring money when they go out clubbing!)

As Hunter and I both know, these types of girls require you to “switch up your game” and use some different techniques to catch their interest…and get them ATTRACTED to you.

The name of the game is TEASING. You need to bust on these girls, challenge them, and make yourself seem like the “prize” that THEY need to try to win. You can’t come off like some ordinary, average dude who is trying to earn their approval.

So, my buddy Hunter started chatting with a very cute 22-year-old blonde with a rock-hard body.

She gave a witty response, and Hunter laughed, and as he took a sip of his beer, he told her…

“You’re kind of cute, you know that? It’s too bad you’re not my type.”

Then, Hunter changed the subject and started talking about a ski trip he went on recently…

Right then, the look on that girl’s face was PRICELESS.

She’s thinking, “WHAT did he just say? I’m not his type?? But I’m EVERY guy’s type!!”

So on the one hand, she was a little bit pissed off and confused…

…while on the other hand, she was suddenly MORE CURIOUS about Hunter…because he had just demonstrated MAJOR confidence. Hot girls rarely experience this from a guy!

It was amazing how quickly her whole demeanor changed. I could tell from her body language that NOW she was trying to get him attracted. She was batting her eyelashes at him, playing with her hair, sticking her tits out…giving off all the little “signals” that girls do, subconsciously, when they’re trying to attract a man.

But Hunter didn’t give her the confirmation she wanted. He did the opposite! At one point, he actually handed her his beer and said “hold this for a sec, I gotta make a phone call,” and went outside for a few minutes.

He went over to some cute girl he knew, and gave her a big hug and chatted with her for a few minutes…while the other girl watched, and surely felt pangs of JEALOUSY…and then Hunter returned to her to resume the conversation. Obviously, the whole time the girl was thinking, “What’s up with this guy? How come he’s SO confident?” (Beautiful women rarely meet men who truly exude confidence…) He is SO freakin’ sure of himself…is he a millionaire? Does he have a fourteen-inch dick? Why isn’t he acting like all the other guys, and trying to buy me drinks?”

Basically, she felt insecure, “off balance,” and most of all she was ATTRACTED. Because this guy behaved in the opposite manner of all the nervous, boring boneheads who were always aproaching her.

This is when my friend Hunter “switched gears” and took it to the next step. He used one of the Cold Read techniques that you’

“You know, Mandy, I can tell that because you look a certain way, guys make assumptions about you. I bet most guys never take the time to really know you, and understand what you’re about. But you’re actually a lot deeper and more sensitive than even some of your friends give you credit for…”

So, he pays her this little compliment, which also makes him seem like a thoughtful, perceptive guy. This statement gets her to open up and share about her interests, and her goals, and he engages her on a deeper level that most guys would NEVER try to go to…

Those other guys would just be standing there, trying not to stare at her tits, asking the same old boring questions (“So where are you from?” “Have you been here before?” Etc…)

Anyway, my good buddy Hunter brought her home that night, and it was a textbook example of Mack Tactics in action.

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