How To Be A Confident Alpha Male

How To Be A Confident Alpha Male

Certainly you are familiar with the expression “Alpha Male.” We often associate this phrase with types of animals — and the strongest, most dominant monkey or lion that rules over the others and gets first crack at the finest females.

Some guys have a negative opinion of what it means to be an Alpha Male. It could mean the football captain who used to rule their high school, intimidating the underclassmen and snatching all the hot chicks. Or, you might have an Alpha Male at your job: a “man’s man” who projects total confidence, and always gets what he’s after. Although he could be difficult to work for, you have to respect him.

Either way, most guys suffer under the conviction that some of us are born as Alpha Males, and the rest of us are fated to be “shy guys” or “nice guys” who can only have the leftovers and don’t even know how to get a girls phone number. But in reality, we’ve all got an Alpha Male within us. So right now I want to give you several quick tips on how to be an Alpha Male, which come from my own life experiences.

How To Become An Alpha Male, Tip #1: Bringing out your Alpha side means that you display charm and confidence when you are around women AND other men. Always enlarge your social network! This is SO important. Look, I’ve seen lots of guys who study “pickup” because they want to understand how to become an Alpha Male. A lot of them become more successful with talking to women and can occasionally pick up a girl, yet they continue to feel intimidated or hostile towards other guys – especially guys who they think are better-looking or cooler than they are, or guys who are getting more attention from girls.

I know that when you go out, the main goal is to meet girls, but making new friendships with “Alpha” guys is going to elevate your long-term game. Make this a habit: when you’re at a bar, club, or party — and you notice guys who have cool, positive energy and are having a lot of fun (and flirting with the girls) — introduce yourself to these dudes. Walk up to the coolest-looking dude in the room and tell him, “Bro, I’m impressed. The girls into you, what’s your secret?” There is a 90% chance that he will shake your hand, want to know you, and now you’ve got this guy as a friend and wingman.

When you start expanding your network of Alpha wingmen, the social benefits are gigantic. These guys will invite you to bars, parties, etc. that you didn’t know about. They may even know hot women that they want to introduce you to. And when you’re hanging out with your Alpha buddies in social environments, you automatically have social proof in the eyes of the women. When women see you hanging with these dudes, it shows that you have high social value.

If you usually go to the same old bars, with the same old friends of yours (and I’m assuming they are NOT the kind of guys who confidently approach hot women), I’d say it’s time for you to step up your game and start hanging with guys who have an Alpha presence and will inspire and motivate you.

How To Become An Alpha Male, Tip #2: The next piece of advice on being an Alpha Male is that you must stop being wishy-washy, and be decisive instead. Women respect men who lay out a path for them to follow. . A girl doesn’t want to be the one to decide where to go eat dinner with you, or which bar to go to for drinks. Actually, when you act indecisive around her, and make weak suggestions, you’re actually causing her to lose interest in you. A girl needs to feel that you able to provide emotional stability and security.

Whenever there is a decision to be made, YOU need to step up and express how you think it should go. Even if it’s as inconsequential as choosing where to go eat or have coffee. She might not always agree, but she will respect the fact that you have a definite opinion.

WEAK MOVE: “Um, if you’re not busy, maybe we could hang out sometime and do something…”

ALPHA MOVE: “So what’s your favorite funny movie of all time? I’ll rent it and we can watch it at my place on Friday night, while you sample some of my cooking.” Or, “You mentioned you love Indian food. I know about this great restaurant that’s a hidden gem, and I want to show it to you. I’ll pick you up Saturday night at 7 o’clock.”

How To Be An Alpha Male, Tip #3: Leave them wanting more. The top Alpha Males – whether it’s a business mogul, or a Hollywood star – are very busy people. They’re not going to grant you endless amounts of their time. Your attitude should be the same with girls. It’s important for you to be the one ending the conversation first — whether this is a phone call to set up a date, or a conversation at a club.

The regular guy will keep talking and babbling until she finally says, “I have to go find my friend” or “it’s was nice to meet you, but I have to get going…” You should always have a goal in mind when you converse with a woman, and accomplish that objective before the conversation ends. At a bar, the objective might be to get her phone number and email address. Or, if you’re calling her on the phone, the purpose could be to figure out when you’re going to see her next. Basically, you’ve got to have a plan, a series of steps in your mind, and a way to execute it.

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