Dating Tips From Dean Cortez

Hey, this is your wingman Dean and I’m going to share some quick dating tips with you that personally helped me break out of my slump a few years ago, and start dating HOT WOMEN. Note, some of these dating tips may suggest that you act the OPPOSITE of how you’ve  normally dealt with women. They might even seem illogical. But I can assure you, these dating tips will make a huge difference in your success rate with women if you man up and follow them.

Dean’s Dating Tips, #1: Stop Being Such A Nice Guy!

You’ve probably noticed that really hot women never seem to be into the guys who are super “nice.” It’s true, isn’t it? In fact, you’ve probably known beautiful girls who dated total “jerks.” You knew that YOU would have been a much better boyfriend for her, but she wasn’t interested in you…at least, not in THAT way.

So what’s happening in these situations? Do women actually prefer to date creeps who cheat on them and mistreat them?

Actually, the truth is quite simple. Women are going to go for the guys they are ATTRACTED to. And now matter how much of a “nice guy” you are, it’s not going to make women feel powerful, gut-level sexual attraction.

In order to become super-successful with women, you’re going to have to STOP a lot of the wussy behavior that has been holding you back. I’m going to show you to how to integrate some “bad boy” tactics & attitude into the way you interact with women.

I’m NOT saying that you need to mistreat women in order to get them. You can still be a good guy who treats women with respect — but you’ve got to learn how to make women respect YOU, too. It’s all about knowing the right tactics.

Dean’s Dating Tips, #2: Stop trying to CONVINCE women to like you.

Attraction does not work this way. No amount of “logic” or “reasoning” is going to make a woman feel differently about you.

Yet guys make this mistake all the time. When we like a girl, but she just isn’t interested, we’ll beg, chase, plead and do all sorts of embarassing things to try to make her change her mind.

It doesn’t work. I’m going to show you how to make women feel FAST sexual attraction towards you, and it’s going to happen during the first encounter. You won’t need to “convince” her of anything…she’ll feel naturally drawn towards you.

Dean’s Dating Tips, #3: Stop trying to “buy” her interest

Think about this for a moment. How many times have you taken a woman out to a restuarant for a nice dinner, or bought her flowers and gifts, and she wound up rejecting you?

This used to happen to me a lot — the first date would SEEM to go well, and I figured I made a good impression by spending money on her and acting like a perfect gentleman.

But then, when I called her to try to plan a second date, I got the cold shoulder. She’d tell me how “busy” she was next week, or she might come right out and tell me: “You’re really a nice guy, but I think we should just be friends.”

I didn’t realize it back then, but when I spent money on those dinner dates, and gifts, and flowers, I was communicating something else to her:

“I’m going to try to buy your attention and interest, because I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am.”

That sounds pretty weak and insecure, doesn’t it? That’s how a woman sees it, when you spend money on her and try to buy her affection. Even worse, women will often get slightly CREEPED OUT when a guy she barely knows starts spending a bunch of money on her (i.e., taking her on an expensive first date). Why? Because she knows what the really guy wants. She knows he’s after SEX. And because he’s spending all this money, maybe he’s starting to think she OWES him something (sex). Think about it. It’s an uncomfortable position for a girl to be in — and if she’s hot, she knows she’s got options. She won’t think twice about cutting this insecure guy loose.

The BEST first date is low-cost and casual. No sense of pressure on either one of you. This really is one of the most important dating tips I can give you. I like to meet girls for coffee, or a drinks. I no longer pay for dinners. And forget about taking her to the movies or to a loud, crowded nightclub. The environment should be relaxed and comfortable, and designed for two people to sit and have a cool conversation. This is when you should use the conversation techniques in the Mack Tactics book to “build the bond” with her, and make her begin to feel sexual attraction.

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