Dean Answers Questions About Get A Girl To Chase You

David asks…

Who could the girl be? What does this dream mean?

So everybody at my bestfriend house. It’s alot of people but the main characters to stick out were Me, her and her Auntie and then there’s a lil girl chasing me around the house. Now this lil girl is a ghost and although she’s cute I dont wanna let her touch me. She however takes it as a game of tag and continues to try to catch me. Im running behind my bestfriend saying you know Im scary get her but she going on bout her business putting stuff up from the gathering. Her Aunt comes in the house and pulls her to the side asking her to take her somewhere and my bestfriend come to me like Im tryna figure out how to do this, should I take you home first or not. So Im like where she going and she reply Belleville and then say naw Ima just take her I’ll be bac watch the house. But Im scared of this lil girl and dont want to be left so I walk to the door behind her as she get in the car and my car is parked in the driveway too. So I go back in the house and start grabbing my stuff. This lil girl wanna go but I tell her no and leave. I remember saying aww she was so cute and then the scene somewhat changes to me being sleep in my bed knowing I dreamed everything that just happened and Im in my head like I hope I dont wake up and see this lil girl standing in my room like Jackie did when she seen that lady. When I opened my eyes the little gurl was standing in the corner clear as day smiling back at me and Im saying you have to go Im scared, you have to leave and closed my eyes bcuz Im scared and want her to leave.Suddenly I feel a tug on my cover like she’s right on the side of me pulling on my cover so I have my eyes closed real tight and refuse to turn in her direction. Im saying leave, you gotta leave then just started praying. Heavenly father in the name of Jesus…..the prayer was so intense that it was like something entered me and I started speaking in tongue as I asked to be woke up. I feel the covers be released and I shake as if my sole has entered me again and I wake up. I get up out the bed and walk into the hall and see the cover and pillow to my bed on the floor in the hallway and was thinking why the heck my boyfriend do that …but I kept going into the bathroom. Im rubbing my eyes but got a real strange view and thats when I realize Im not woke. So I walk back into the room and get in the bed as if I going to finish out the rest of the dream. The little girl is in my room again but this time Im not scared. Im telling her she have to leave and she have to go home now and she starts floating up towards the ceiling. The top of her head goes thru but then she starts coming back down. I ask her what’s the matter and she reply I want you to come with me. I smile and say one day sweetie…one day I’ll be coming home too. By this time she’s back at floor level and its like were in front of my window but the blinds are wide open and you can see everything outside. Were both looking out the window andmy brother (holding a ball), his son and another guy walk up to the curb and just stop as if they waiting for something. She walked thru the window running towards them and then I actually woke up.

Dean answers:

Personally, I do not believe that dreams have any inherent meanings. However, if you ask any other Indian pundit, he will say that the little girl is indication of your child in future. Her soul is visiting you to know you well. Would-be mothers are known to have been visited by their child in advance.
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James asks…

HELP! Does this girl like me?

Hi I am a 17 yr old male. Thanks for taking the time; I really appreciate your thoughts. I met this girl through one of my friends who she really likes. I began talking to her on facebook chat to find out if she really likes this guy which she said she does. Since then we have been talking, flirting, complimenting each other on facebook for long periods of time every time we are both online and she always initiates the conversation. I have met up with her on two occasions with other friends and she seems really cool and I’ve began to really fall for her.

My friend is planning on making a move on this girl, they have known each other for 8 years through family. It seems as though he has decided to only want to make a move once I told him I thought she was hot and i would like to ask her out when he previously said, “I wouldn’t go there” so i was really pissed off at him for doing this to me when he told me. I almost lost him as a friend i was so angry cos he told me that “i could have her.” So anyway i haven’t made a move yet but feel as though i need to make one before him because as I said I have really fallen for her and at this time she would choose him over me because we haven’t seen each other in real life enough so I need to beat him so to speak. I have asked her to “hang out” one on one after Christmas where she said she would be happy to but declined earlier outings because she was “busy.”

It is just weird because i know she likes him and im pretty sure still does as she has a pic of them in her profile picture on facebook as he was at her house all week because of family get together. I have anxiety and had a panic attack because a lot of the comments said things like, “you should be a couple” and “couple shot.” I haven’t slept in two days as I am very picky with girlfriends and only ask them out if I really genuinely like them. I seem really confident on the outside and get with girls at parties but deep down I am a sensitive guy and really looking for a girlfriend to give my love and she seems like one.

Does she like me?
- She talks to me on facebook for long periods of time and initiates the conversation 90% of the time
- I told her I would like to get to know her better and possibly ask her out and she didn’t act differently.
- Texts me late at night asking me to chat to her on Facebook
- We have a poke war going
- When I asked her who she liked other than my friend she said, “well id like to get to know u better”
- She was the only person other than my family to text me happy birthday
- Always asks me if i got with any girls at a party
- Tells me “hook in” if she finds out i have a girl chasing me

If you reckon she likes me than what about my friend, can she like two guys at the same time or is she stringing me on?

Dean answers:

Yes she can why not i do iam a girl

Donald asks…

girl chasing?

Ok heres the deal. I just got out of a relationship with my gf of 8 months. She talked to one of my friends and he said that she said she still loved me and he says he thinks shes regretting breaking up with me. The other day one of her friends talked to me and told me that if i did want to get back together with her to not ignore her, and to just talk to her a bit. So that day i did talk to her and we had a nice conversation. After that she hugged me like you would hug a boyfriend. Then today and yesterday i sent her two text messages, just trying to be friendly and let her know im thinking about her. She responded very shortly and I got a bad vibe. How should I handle this? Is she just wanting to be chased? She told me for a week before she broke up she didnt know if she felt the same way, or could see me the same way over a mistake i made. Idk wtf is going on…
Yes I do want to get back together with her

Dean answers:

Send her one more text and/or email – ‘I’m willing to try the relationship again. If you are interested, let me know. If not, I need a period of No Contact to heal.’

William asks…

Why is it so flattering to have a younger girl chase you?

Question for married men.

I don’t get it. Wouldn’t it be flattering at any age? Why is younger more flattering?

Dean answers:

Younger women theoretically have a greater choice of men.

Ken asks…

How do i make a girl chase me, i been chasing her?

Been dating this girl being to nice to her cus herbabys father gets out of jail in october. And I’m tryin to show her I’m better. Not really workin… so my question is how do i get her to chase me? I call her first i say i love you first. I want some control she has it all. We been dating for four montha I’m 24 she is 22 i love her. How do i change up my game i want her to chase me instead a lil but not for her to lose intrest

Dean answers:

In general you don’t want to ever seem to eager or into the person you’re with. It’s actually a huge turnoff for most people. You can do this by pretending not to care if she walks right out of your life. The more you tell her you love her the less she will like you. That’s just how it works. She needs to know that you have other options. Women find this really attractive. Flirt with other women. Also, women are very image and status oriented. Go get yourself some clothes from Nordstrom Rack and a stylish haircut. You would be amazed what this will do for you. Stop wearing sneakers as much. Also, get a car that’s not a junker. It doesn’t have to be a Lexus but it can’t be rusted out either. There are some books that will help you with this especially ‘Mystery Method’.

Charles asks…

How to get a girl to chase you?

The girl I like calls me her “best friend” Ive never been able to tell her that i like her either because shes dating someone or were never alone (but she knows some how but Ive never told her) recently she has been ignoring my texts and Facebook messages she blames the technology but i don’t believe it i want to make a move but i feel i have to get her to chase me first how do i get her to chase me? or any other suggestions?

Dean answers:

You cannot get her to chase you. And if you are interested in her, you need to be a bit more mature about it. If she is with someone else, you need to leave her alone and see how things develop.

Chris asks…

Is there a romance movie about a girl chasing a guy?

I’ve thought about it and looked online, but I can’t really find any. The closest I can come to is “13 Going On 30″ and “Pretty in Pink”.
I feel like not a lot of movies out there have a girl as the main character who falls for a guy and tries her best to get him. Most always focus on the guy getting the girl, going from loser to “winning” the girl in the end. I’d like to see it from the girl‘s POV for once!
If you can think of any good ones, please let me know!

Dean answers:

Some Kind of Wonderful (1987)

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094006/

Richard asks…

How do you chase a girl?

I have been told that men have to chase the girl, and that most girls like the chase by the man. What exactly are they talking about? I usually have girls admit to me that they like me and we go from there, but recently I have noticed I am not getting the girls I want and kinda do want to chase the girls i want, how do i go about doing that?

Dean answers:

Dont chase anyone let them come to you.

Mark asks…

How would you feel if a girl rejected you in this way..?

This guy is a bit of a player and girls chase after him all the time. We met a while ago and i didn’t get with him. Which must have been a surprise for him. He chased me and at this party he was with me all night, being flirty and chasing after me, Then when he went in to kiss me, and planted one on my lips but i just lay there and didn’t kiss him back. Then he turned around and said all night you‘ve rejected me and i just canb’t be bothered anymore.
Do you think he’s just going to give up now ?
The only reason why i didnt get with him is because i was seeing someone but i’m now single and if he did try again id definatly go for it.
How do you think he feels guys ?

Dean answers:

I think you teased him all night long. And, no.

I don’t think you will get a second chance. Especially with what he said.

You could always write him an email and ask politely – maybe ask him out for a movie or something, say something like ? Sorry about the other night. I was having a bad day. Let start over ?

Peace.

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