Dean Answers Questions About Get A Girlfriend

i need some advice on how to get over an ex?

okay! So i really miss my ex boyfriend but we broke up in april a lont time ago and i still cant seem to get over him! he has a girlfriend now and im still single! but it seems like everytime i start to like another guy i stop cuz i think of him and i want him no one else! but i cant have him so idk what i should do! any advice or tips???

what to get my girlfriend?

ok my girlfriends bday id march 21 and shes turning 12, im a year older than her by the way, shes in 6th im in 7th and mines in april, do you have any idea on what to get her? her friends are telling me just a ring but im thinkin about gettin her a bracelet??? help plaease

I’m concerned that my son has a secret girlfriend?

My 17 year old son has been very secretive with me lately, recently he has started to refuse to go to church with the family and tonight when I was going through his room I found a magazine with naked men in it. He obviously has a girlfriend that he is hiding from me that brought that magazine into my home and I am afraid they are having intercourse and I am greatly concerned that he is going to get her pregnant.

What should I do about this?
He is not a homosexual, we have taught him from the bible and he has learned though our church that this is not in God’s plan. I will not teach him about condoms, that is unacceptable, we have always taught him about abstinence and that is what God and his future wife expects from him.

I want to speak to our pastor about this but I am very afraid of what he would think we are teaching our son if he things we are allowing him to sneak a girl into his bedroom. That is clearly inappropriate and we are good parents, I am very afraid what he will think of us.

How to get my girlfriend comfortable with doing things to me?

My girlfriend is 15 and has never done anything more then kissing with other partners. I am 17 and have more experience with everything but am still a virgin also, but i know what i am doing and go for it. We have been dating for three months and all it has been is me on her kissing her neck, touching her doing ebverything to her but sex. She did touch me through my pants last time we got together but thats all and was hesitant to do that. How do i get her to want to please me even just a little bit more, im getting tired of giving and getting nothing in return. And after she did it once that last time i asked her to try it again before i dropped her off and she said she already did it once that night and that was it, im a guy i have needs and funny thing is i did more things to her after she said that. any suggestions

My ex girlfriend calls me drunk after nearly 2 months since she broke up with me, help!?

Last weekend my ex calls me (probably drunk) 3 times & once from her friend’s phone at 3am on Saturday night/sunday morning (6th march).

My phone was on silent so I didn’t pick up.

It got me thinking why she had called… I thought about ringing her the next day but didn’t want to come across as needy

So I waited until Friday where I was 90% going to call but refused the urge. It got until 2am Friday night / Saturday morning & she called me. I had just woke for some reason anyway so I answered and played it as cool I could considering how shocked i was.

She was drunk and was asking why I didn’t answer or call back from last week… I made up that I didn’t know she’d called. She was saying things like ‘i’ve missed you’ and ‘i love you’ and saying ‘we need to sort it out’ and ‘we love each other’ she said she got a really good pay rise at work and she wanted share the good times with, she was going on and on and saying we can sort it out and I should move down south and we can get a flat together, then she was saying dirty stuff trying to entice me in.

It all made me feel very happy so I was trying to play it so cool but really didn’t know what to say, I tried to make it out like I was shocked and teased her about being drunk, she was asking things like ‘do you miss me’ which I replied ‘at times’, she also asked if I still love her I said ‘there’s a little bit in my heart somewhere’

So it carried on with her blabbering away & she was asking if we should meet up, I acted like I wasn’t sure about it, I tried to play it cool but in my head I knew I wanted to and can’t help but think it came across that I wanted to deep inside as I was saying ‘maybe’ and then ‘well i suppose we could’.

So she called me a few times that night. she was asking me if i had a girlfriend & why i didn’t call back last week again, then she popped up with ‘I’ve got a boyfriend but I wanna work it out with you’ (I’m pretty sure her BF is her ex who I think she left me for).

I lost my cool only a little, I said ‘what, you’ve got a boyfriend, I can’t believe your telling me this after ringing and saying all of this’ and she was then saying she could come up tomorrow in her car i was saying ‘but you’ve got a boyfriend… i only want u to come up if you’re 100% sure ‘ anyway we carried on speaking about general stuff then I said we’ll speak in the morning about it…

So in the morning it was getting till about 12 o’clock so I thought I’d call and test the water a little bit & also because she hadn’t called yet & I was thinking she would leave it too late to come down (i really wish I hadn’t called even it meant no contact all day)

So i was speaking with her, she still seemed warm & a little embarrassed, she didn’t drop the ‘i love u’ or any of the more serious stuff, she was saying that she missed me etc and a bit more sexual stuff… i teased her a little about the stuff she was saying and my intuition tells me this kind of gave her a reality check about what she’s done and has probably made her confused as how its come off on me & maybe gave her second thoughts… I asked if she was coming down… she said she didn’t know as it’s so far away and she also said her boyfriend will be thinking where am I… (this really angered me, the way she can just switch me on & off) but I played it as cool as I could & said to call later when she’s not at her friends…

So we didn’t speak all day until 10.30pm when i initiated some dirty messages which finishes when she sends “your so dirty danny, i’ve just *** haha’, I was sending these texts trying to come across as the fun guy again but I’m not sure if I should of just backed off….

I get the impression she called this week as she was desperate for me because she was thinking i’ve gone away and not going to be there for her when things are bad with her boyfriend,

Even though I was trying to play it so cool, I can’t help but think she has it in her head now that she can have me if she wants me… I feel i could of played the cat & mouse game a little bit better & I still do feel like i’m right in the game but I need to come across as a harder catch again…

When and if we next speak I want to come across a lot harder and I think I need to lay a few boundaries to show her I am no push over

I was thinking of maybe sending a text like:

Look i don’t think this is going work out between us, you’ve got a boyfriend, you don’t know what you want, i think we should call it quits and get on with our lives. We had fun but i just don’t feel it will work out between us, so i wish you good luck and goodbye x”

I now need away to show I’m not that easy and will coming back, but I still want her, hel

My girlfriend and my best friend hate each other?

My girlfriend and I are in secret relationship we’re only 12 years old,
It’s secret because it’s kinda awkward because we’re only 12 years old and it’s like this in our religion.

So my best friend which I hang alot with had problems with my girlfriend and he hates her so much like the person he hate the most in our class. (we’re all in the same class and we’re in the same row, we’re sitting behind each other)

And my girlfriend hates him a lot too.

So in class we play a game called Judge and Sniper.
We write in 4 papers Thief, Detective , Judge, and Sniper.

The detective needs to find out who the thief is between the Sniper and the Thief.
If he guesses right then the judge judge’s how much to hit the thief (between 0-15) on his hand.

He judges how many times and if strong or weak.
So my best friend got the judge and I got the sniper and my girlfriend got the thief and sadly she was discovered so my bestfriend judged 15 hard on her and I need to hit her.

And what’s more if my girlfriend needs to get hitted and I judge weak hits then my bestfriend will know that i like her.

So what to do?
He tells me to hit her as hard as I can for him and crap.

And they always talk shit about each other on msn even though it’s irriating.
He tells me to hit her as hard as I can for him and crap.

And they always talk shit about each other on msn it’s irritating

How can I get a girlfriend if I have aspergers?

I am having a hard time getting a girlfriend because my disability turns women off! And I cant help the way I am. Its sad because I am such a sweet caring guy and no woman wants to go out with me because I have aspergers and I can’t help who I am. What can I do about this? How can I make myself better? Every girl in the world who are good looking are such stuck up bimbos and don’t tolerate asperger guys nor would they date someone that has aspergers.

Should a 31 year old have relationship experience?

I am a regular, single, straight, 31 year old male from Long Island. I have never had a girlfriend or even experienced my first kiss. I have gone on maybe three or four dates, but the girls would probably classify them as “hanging out”. I have never met the right lady – just a little bad luck I guess. I am in no rush to get married or anything, but I would like to experience a real relationship. Again, I am in no rush.

All of my friends are telling me that my lack of experience will be crippling. Furthermore, I am told by friends and acquaintances that my still living at home with my parents is a “red flag”. I don’t see why this is a red flag, especially since I am working on a doctorate (juris). I have no need to move out and there is no reason to put yet another expense on my parents just so I can get an apartment or house that I don’t need.

What do you think about all this?