Dean Answers Questions About Girlfriends In God

My girlfriends “GOD SISTER” is prying in our relationship How do I handle it without being too mean?

My girlfriends so-called “God-Sister” is trying to pry into our relationship and split us up, because my girlfriends parents hate me. They know that they have no affect on my girlfriend, but if a “close” friend gets involved it might work, the friend is trying to get in close to me, by sending me a friend request on MySpace and things like that just so she can report anything I do to my girlfriends sister, or parents(I caught it pretty quick, before any damage could be done and deleted the girl from my MySpace account!) . I don’t want to be mean to the girl cause they are close, but I’m starting to get just a little bit pissed off about it, any suggestions?

What is a good way to talk to my girlfriend about God?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for three months now and God has been tugging at my heart to tell her about him and I’m scared. I’m scared about about a lot of things in our relationship but sadly this can only be one question so if there are any christians out there that can advice me please do so.

What can I do I hate my girlfriends friends? GOD HELP ME!?

My girlfriend is 22, I am 25 we have been together for 4 years. I moved from the UK to Spain 2 years ago to be with her. I live alone, she lives with her parents. She has never lived with me.

I have been very open minded with her friends and have tried to get along with them and be nice. I do not seek to ‘control’ my girlfriend. While I am sure they like me, I can’t stand them. My girlfriend does not know I can’t stand them. I do not insult them etc.

Her friends are very insular, all decisions are made by one leader in the group – what she decides goes. Her friends are not allowed to leave their city over night without permission from their parents they are all around 22-23. One of them is very sexually active and has threesomes with men. In this girls other group of friends at university this girl has had sex with nearly all the men in the group.

When in their group my girlfriend friends and my girlfriend ignore myself and my friends when we talk to them. Simply cutting off conversation with us or ignoring what was said completely. This happened the other day and my friend came to me to say how rude they where.

Recently we went to a water park and two of her friends stood and watched and went on no rides all day after paying for entry to the park.

They get angry if my girlfriend does anything with me instead of with them. I took my girlfriend away for a long weekend in another city for valentines day. They shouted at her for not coming to their friday night out.

On their friday night outs only for girls they wear extremely slutty clothes, get dangerously drunk, flirt with many men, one had sex in toilets when she was out and my girlfriend goes along with it.

My girlfriend told her friends she has a 4 month work contract for the summer. The first reaction was “What about us going out at night?”

They wear friendship bracelets all the time and on occasion matching necklaces.

My girlfriend is a completely different person when interacting with other people and is great.

What can I do to deal with this? I see no sign of my girlfriend leaving this group of friends unless she moves away to another city or country with me. She has known these friends since she was 5 more or less.

Their conversations consists of trivial things, small talk which lasts all evening.

I want my girlfriend to get more mature friends, who will help her grow as a person.

What can I do I hate my girlfriends friends? GOD HELP!?

My girlfriend is 22, I am 25 we have been together for 4 years. I moved from the UK to Spain 2 years ago to be with her. I live alone, she lives with her parents. She has never lived with me.

I have been very open minded with her friends and have tried to get along with them and be nice. I do not seek to ‘control’ my girlfriend. While I am sure they like me, I can’t stand them. My girlfriend does not know I can’t stand them. I do not insult them etc.

Her friends are very insular, all decisions are made by one leader in the group – what she decides goes. Her friends are not allowed to leave their city over night without permission from their parents they are all around 22-23. One of them is very sexually active and has threesomes with men. In this girls other group of friends at university this girl has had sex with nearly all the men in the group.

When in their group my girlfriend friends and my girlfriend ignore myself and my friends when we talk to them. Simply cutting off conversation with us or ignoring what was said completely. This happened the other day and my friend came to me to say how rude they where.

Recently we went to a water park and two of her friends stood and watched and went on no rides all day after paying for entry to the park.

They get angry if my girlfriend does anything with me instead of with them. I took my girlfriend away for a long weekend in another city for valentines day. They shouted at her for not coming to their friday night out.

On their friday night outs only for girls they wear extremely slutty clothes, get dangerously drunk, flirt with many men, one I heard recently had sex in club toilets and my girlfriend goes along with it.

My girlfriend told her friends she has a 4 month work contract for the summer. The first reaction was “What about us going out at night?”

They wear friendship bracelets all the time and on occasion matching necklaces.

My girlfriend is a completely different person when interacting with other people and is great.

What can I do to deal with this? I see no sign of my girlfriend leaving this group of friends unless she moves away to another city or country with me. She has known these friends since she was 5 more or less.

Their conversations consists of trivial things, small talk which lasts all evening.

I want my girlfriend to get more mature friends, who will help her grow as a person.