Dean Answers Questions About How To Talk To Girls At School

How to survive at an all-girls school?

I asked htis earlier, but I think it was too early in the day and I got very few responses. Please answer if you can. Thanks!

I go to a school with all girls. It’s kind of remote, and there are no boys schools around or many guys anywhere nearby. Some of the girls have boyfriends who visit every once in a while, but for most it’s too far from home, and the school has a lot of rules about visitors. “No boys in the rooms!”

So the girls go out together, in couples or groups. We go to the movies or dinner, or for a walk. There’s a lake you can row or sail on. Girls talk about “having a date” this weekend, though it almost always means with another girl. You often see them walking around town holding hands or with their arms around each other.

I’m pretty sure most of the girls here are straight, but I know stuff goes on, mostly because they’re lonely, and, to be honest, everyone gets horny once in a while. I see lots of kissing, some of it pretty heavy, and I know more stuff goes on in private.

I’m not sure what to think about all this. Should I just figure that it’s normal for the situation and not worry about it? If girls are sexual with each other, do you think they will stay that way after school? I haven’t done much yet, but girls invite me over “to study” and stuff, and I know someone will eventually ask me to be more intimate.

Changing schools isn’t an option for me right now. What do you think I should do?