Dean Answers Questions About How To Talk To Girls On The Phone

William asks…

how do you talk to girls on the phone and give them hint that you like them and what do you talk to them abou?

we’ve been friend for a long time 4 year and i think she kind of like me but there other guys involved that like her im 18

Dean answers:

That depends on how involved the other guys are. If they just like her, who cares about them. Tell her that you like her. Would you still be her friend even if she said she didn’t feel the same? If so tell her that. She’ll respect you more for it. (don’t lie to her, girls don’t like lying jerks) just be honest. She must like something about you if you’ve been friends for so long.

Charles asks…

i am 13 and how do u get ur parents to let u date when they don’t evan let u talk with girls on the phone?

Dean answers:

Dont tell them

&& text.

Joseph asks…

Help me plz with situation girl I talked to on phone ? Girls preferably answer question guys can too?

I will give best answer for best response.I was talking to girl on phone 10 pm yesterday it all started out good then I asked her questions I became nervous and silent pause when she was asking me questions took time answer. Eventually, I said I will talk to you later. She said wait asked me question” are gonna go back to place I use to work at.” I said “Maybe got summer classes. Bye.” Also, I didn’t realize is i called her around 10 pm and she was sleeping and i made a dumb mistake calling her in the first place and acted nervous when I did not need to. Did I blow it with this girl since I acted nervous and should I forget about her? Do I have second chance with her to redeem myself with her? By calling her tomorrow or in a week from today? I was gonna start conversation tomorrow right after high school by Hey whats up my name. Sorry about last night I called u and didn’t realize that you tired and slept so early. Shes answers. I sleep usually later on at night since I done with college: Me. What kinds of classes are u taking at school? tell her about classes I took and funny story. ask her a funny story. I will call you later on next week. This time I will be confident. Is this a good way to approach this conversation and situation? Should I or Should I not call her after I woke her up and made me look like a wuss? Plz help me need it a lot. How do I fix this mistake? What would you do in my situation? Keep in mind I don’t go to same high school as her I am in college I meet her at workplace we both work at.

Dean answers:

She is in High School and you are in college? Is there much of an age difference? Xox

Steven asks…

any tips on how to talk to girl on phone?

well i like a girl form my class and my book was with her so she gave me her phone no i called twice but she did not receive it so she finally called to day but the conversation could hardly last for 2 min
so i wlll like ot know what you should talk with girls ?

Dean answers:

Be calm, and confident. Ik, thats kinda difficult to do over the phone, but hey, SHE CALLED U BACK!!!! Be happy! Ask her wats new with her, and then tell her something about urself, dont worry, ull figure it out.

Thomas asks…

How to talk to a girl on the phone?

I got this girls phone number. She has a great personality. I haven’t talked to her much, and I am thinking about calling her. I am not sure what to say though. Should I just call and say hi? And if so where do I go from there?
Ok….Thanks for the answers……But, she probably doesn’t think I am going to call her. Is it okay if she doesn’t think I am goign to call her, and how will I know if she wants to talk to me?

Dean answers:

I would wait a few days after you got her number (2 -4) then just call her and talk to her about things she likes and when things come up you like as well, start talking about those things more specifically and before you get off the phone invite her to do one of those things with you / you and freinds?… And just ask when its a good time for her…

Chris asks…

Charging Someone With Theft?

Ok, it was the last class of the day and the bell was about to ring. So I when back to my desk to pack my things and notice my ipod was missing. That was on Wednesday fast forward to today, same class. Someone stole my friends purse today and she had asked the class if anyone had seen it. Of course everyone said no. Me being up set and not wanting her to feel alone I brought up that indeed I to had lost something two days ago(that being the ipod). 5 seconds later this guy who sits right behind me says “who lost their I ipod?” and starts to chuckle. I ignore it not wanting to repeat myself until his friend, the juvenile delicate that took my ipod says, “Hey, I think I lost mines too” and looks dead azz at me. That’s when my suspicions went off the chart. Using my peripheral vision I began to watch him. Sure of enough he was fiddling around his book bag and every 15 seconds he would glance up at me.

He puts his headphone in and trying to be all sneaky hiding behind his jacket and plugs his headphone into a blue ipod. That I know now is my ipod. At one point the teacher told him to turn it down ’cause it was that loud(important detail). I didn’t want to just come off the back and accuse him and be wrong because, my ipod has a little crack in the upper right-hand corner and the on button doesnt work unless you hold the white plastic frame down, plus it had a sticker with the word LOL on the back but, he could of took that off at anytime. So with encouragement from friends, I told the teacher and she asked him to let her see his ipod and book bag. He told her “no, I don’t have an ipod that was my phone” Already blood boiling pissed I jump up and basically called him out on his lie. Saying that I know you have it ’cause just awhile ago she told you to turn your music down. I explain to him if it isn’t mines I apologize but if it is then I want it back. He is really ignorant and refers to women as bitches and “claims” to have slapped a girl. That kind of guy who acts hard and thinks he knows the “game” but is really from the suburbs and can.t stay out pass 7. So of course he tries to lie his way out, refusing to give us( the teacher and I) the book bag. So he runs….and I follows after, not wanting him to toss it. I tell her to call the admistrator. While I’m trailing behind him calm and content not wanting to put my first throiugh his face, telling him “I just want to check, I just want to check”- probably said this about 50 times. When he see his poses he starts to put on a show jump and dancing looking foolish and starts to walk in a pack with them until he started to run agian. At this point I was done. We have been through the hallway, up the stairs the, men room, which I think he tossed it there, since I heard the sound of paper towels being pulled(went back and checked after the bell). Until he pushes me saying he was going to hit me. Bullshit. If had so much as attempted, my ipod would NOT be the only thing missing. I lacth on to his bag saying my little chant “Just let me check’.

A few minutes of struggling he give up and I start to check already knowing that he either tossed it or gave it to one of his “pals” while they were surrounding him. Preparing myself for the reality. What confirms this thought? How about the fact that this idoit says “I know who has it but you aint never getting it back.”
I got what I wanted, that being to check his bag and it was not there. The bell rung and he was gone, off to the busses. I went down stairs and was meet by the adminstrator, a cop, and my teacher. I told them everthing and was ensured that things would be handled on monday. I also told my mom about what happend and how I want to press charges. We are going to talk more when she gets home.

Can I press charges? I only have verbal evidence and witness.
And would happen If I do press charges? I am planning on making him pay me $300. The $200 to cover the price of the ipod and the $100 for personal reasons. What am I to expect and how do I go about doing so.
Can I press charges? I only have verbal evidence and witnesses.
And what would happen If I do press charges?
I want $300 from him. The $200 to cover the price of the ipod and the $100 for personal reasons. What am I to expect and how do I go about doing so?

“messed up with the spelling for the last part:P sorry”

Dean answers:

You have absolutely 0 proof.

Paul asks…

How do you approach and talk to girls without sounding and looking desperate? How do you not appear desperate?

How do most girls like to be approached? and how do they like most guys to initiate a conversation? and when can you tell if the girl wants to end the conversation or she wants you to stop asking her questions? I have a very hard time reading body language and social cues because I have Asperger Syndrome, and I have never had a gf, and I have only been on one date, which was recently. Also what kind of body language should guys use when they are talking to girls or going to approach them? Like how should he walk and far should his distance be? Obviously I never lean over a girls shoulder or breath down her neck, I am not that stupid, I never follow girls around, I always let them go about their own business. I know that girls communicate more with body language than verbal, and they can read body language a heck of a lot easier than us guys. Whenever I get a girls phone number, I don’t call her everyday, I wait like 2 or 3 days before calling her the first time. What other advice?
I want serious, detailed answers!!! Also, I am always being myself when I talk to people, both guys and girls, I never try to be or act like somebody else. Anyway, so what could I be doing that is showing girls that I am desperate?

Dean answers:

Ask for directions. R ask wat she does for fun

George asks…

how to talk to girls, anywhere, what to say, phone convos, in public, without being a manipulative jerk?

u see, i have a huge problem with girls when it comes to verbal communication. i can talk to girls online and get the conversation going very easily. but on phone or in public i literally can’t think of anything to say to keep a convo going or keep them interested… my whole life i’ve been trying to figure out how to talk to girls. i have failed many times, all i want is to know how relationships work.. i hate being single, btw i’m 16 and going to be a senior in highschool. this is bad for me cuz i should know how to talk to girls by now and i do not want to live the rest of my life alone. plus my friends make fun of me for not losing my virginity, but that’s a tiny reason i want a gf. the big reason is i just want someone to love and spend time with, please help a guy out….. -Blake ..

Dean answers:

Well you really sound like a sweet guy. First of all, being a virgin is a great thing. Even if you were a senior in college and a virgin I think that is awesome! (I am a 22 year old senior in college) So when you do find the right girl and you are both ready to take that step it will be so much more special! As far as talking to girls I know it can be tough. Just ask us questions, we love to talk! Ask us about school or our favorite subject or what we are going to do for college or where we want to go for college. Talk about mutual friends or ask what movies we have gone to see or what our favorite movie is. If you are about to call a girl it is a good idea to write down a list of things to talk about before you call. So if there is an akward silence you can look at your list and ask her something. I hope this helps!

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