Dean Answers Questions About How To Talk To Girls On The Phone

Dean answers:

Its not that hard. Just as easy as it is to text, its the same to call. I know how you feel, because ive been in the same situation before. I wont guarntee it wont be awkward; remember, youre a freshman and shes a senior. The things you two may talk about or want to talk about may be totally different. She may want to talk about things that never may have crossed your mind (college, work, etc.) since shes older than you and shes about to graduate. Just call her and say, “hey, its _____. How are you doing?” or something to kind of start you off. Maybe youve just met her? If so, try to get to know her. Ask her “get to know you” questions like:

whats your favorite color?
Do you have any brothers and sisters?
Whens your birthday?
What do you like to do for fun?
How was your day at school? What classes are you taking?

Any sort of conversation starters. Avoid anything that she wont give a short (but not long) answer to. Or something silly. Like, “watd you eat today?” lol.

It wont be awkward as long as you have something to talk about! :) hope i helped!

Dean answers:

Just say hey its —–, and then ask her whats up. If you figure out something you have in common then you can talk about that (like if shes in your math class then you can be lik “so that test today was really hard huh?” or “wow so how boring was science today?! It was so hard not to fall asleep! Lol”). Or if you really can’t make small talk on the phone, then try to get the girl to talk about herself (trust me, girls LOVE talking about themselves lol) and then you can just ask questions so she knows youre listening…
Or if you just wanna call the girl and ask her out and not actually have a convo with her than just be lik “so i was just watching tv and saw an add for that movie —– and i think it looks really good… What do you think?” and if she agrees than ask her if she wants to see it with you this weekend, and if she says no then be lik “oh so what kind of movies DO you like?” and then pick a movie lik that and ask her if she wants to see it with you…
Good luck! =) hope i helped!!

Dean answers:

Well, it depends on what you mean by “date”. Do you have a certain girl in mind? If so, then talk to your parents about it. Tell them of your feelings for her, and INTRODUCE them to her. This will make them fell whatever conclusion you come up with is on their terms.

Now if you mean you want to just date girls. That’s a little more tricky. Its for this reason that they don’t want you to date in the first place! They don’t want a bunch of little ones running around, and they probably feel that your too young to date. If you are, relax. There is plenty of time to date girls. In fact eventually you will get to points in your life where you wish you’ve never dated anyone EVER.
But again talk to your parents. If you go ahead and let them into your life, meaning, tell them things that you wouldn’t normally want to and try to really keep them in the loop with the things you do, they will feel much more comfortable with letting you roam more freely. If you take any issue and sit them down and say “look you guys I really want to talk with you guys about this”, and gradually expand to bigger and bigger issues,you will develop a better relationship with your parents, and they will feel great about trusting you and know you will make the best decision with being alone girl.
Just remember. The better your relationship is with your parents, the more they will want to let you do what you want to.

Dean answers:

Just say “Hey let me get your number so I can call you sometime”