Dean Answers Questions About How To Talk To Shy Girls

Dean answers:

Don’t come off to strong but sometimes we’re shy because we’re not interested.

Dean answers:

This is relatively simple but will only work if he is attracted to you.

First you have to remember to smile whenever he looks in your direction. If he makes eye contact try and maintain eye contact and smile back. Men are reluctant to approach women who are not smiling.

If he makes eye contact with you and you smile back without averting your eyes or blushing the next step is to wave at him. He will wonder why you waved at him and he may approach you to ask why.

If he doesn’t approach you to ask why he will either assume you like him and think about talking to you another time or ignore you because he’s not interested. Don’t assume he’s not interested just because he didn’t respond immediately.

You can try this again and not feel silly because the worst that can happen is he will think “she’s that girl that waves at me sometimes… Football, schools boring, video games, ect. In other words if he is seriously just not interested he won’t think about it much and focus on more interesting things.

If this doesn’t work you can ask for his help doing something. Just look for something to do that seems difficult for a person to do by themselves and ask him to help you. This requires a little imagination but smart women often do this.

While he’s helping, you can start a friendly conversation. When he is finished helping, you have to thank him with a complement. Something like “I thought a strong guy like you could help me with this or I just knew you would be smart enough to help me.” He will probably be shocked when you say this because not many men are used to receiving complements without expecting them but he will like it and it will make him start thinking about getting to know you.

If things go really well and you think he is enjoying talking to you, touch his arm in a friendly way and he will know that you like him and he will think about asking you out.

You don’t need to corner a guy and start talking to him like your friends suggest unless you feel comfortable doing this. Asking his friends isn’t usually a good idea unless you already know them.

Don’t be afraid of doing little things to get his attention. Confident girls often just begin talking to the guy to get his attention but this doesn’t always work because some guys feel intimidated when a girl comes on too strong. Shy girls can be very successful getting guys attention by being persistent and doing a lot of little things that keep reminding him to take notice.

Dean answers:

Get his msn or phone number.
IM him o text.
People always get more confindent this way.

Dean answers:

Join tons of clubs and wait for an encounter or un-shy yourself

Dean answers:

Say hi..and ask him about whatever he is doing…or get his number/facebook account and talk to him that way

Dean answers:

Just be direct and fearless and say hi to her and look her in the eye and smile. That should make her heart race, i think. Just talk to her, let it be organic. If you feel awkward just make light of the situation

Dean answers:

Do you know his close friends? Maybe you can talk to them and ask if they can help you out

Dean answers:

Ok, I understand what you mean. I’m shy around new people too, but if you have mutual friends, my advice would be to bring that friend with you when you see him next, and have her/him start the conversation, and then you start talking, then it becomes easier to talk if u rnt alone. Eventually you will be less shy around him