Dean Answers Questions About How To Talk To Shy Girls

Richard asks…

How do I talk to a really shy girl I like?

Ok, so school just started back like 3 days ago. And I tend to fall for girls really fast, like love at first sight. Anyways there is this girl in my math class. She is soo beautiful. She has brown hair and brown eyes and is very short and is kinda nerdy looking. I basically sit across the room from her and I saw her eyes and her hair and her face and like omg I got lost in her eyes like a kid at a grocery store.

But she’s really shy, I literally never heard her speak. And I’m kind of a hopeless romantic and really shy also. But shes WAY more shy than I am. And she looks like the kind of girl who is fragile. Her feelings might be sensitive. So how do I talk to her without making her feel uncomfortable? What can I say?

She’s in my math class and she’s in my lunch So that’s good. She is kind of a loner too and she is always by herself and she seems kinda weird but I like weird and she is such a cute nerdy girl. I can tell shes sweet and so real. I haven’t met her yet except for brief eye contact. How do I meet her?

I really want to at least be friends with her cause she is so beautiful and so cute and i can tell shes a sweetheart. I just need to know how to talk to her because she is so shy and i’m very shy talking to girls. Please I need help!! Thanks, Appreciate it.

By the way Im a sophmore, she’s a freshman. idk why thats important lol. But yah thanks :)

Dean answers:

Send her some flowers.

Charles asks…

How can I talk to this shy girl?

So schools been going on for 1 term (like 50 days). Theres this girl I want to talk to but she is really shy. She only really has friends that are girls so I want to be good friends with her.

I sit by her in Geometry but i don’t want to be lame and ask obvious questions about math. What can I say?

Dean answers:

First say:
‘Hey (her name) (with a nice friendly smile) how are you today?’
and then just ask her questions about her.. Like, what she is doing on the weekend, or what she did last weekend,
or , try finding something you know she likes, then talk to her bout it, or ask her bout it!
Just talk to her lotttsss ,and eventually she’ll be pretty comfortable talking to you! Oh and msn helps, so ask her for it :)
goooood luck :)

Ken asks…

How do I talk to girls when I’m shy but sweet?

I’m an eighteen year old boy who has not had a girlfriend and only one of my friends is a girl. I’ve always been shy around girls and have never been able to show off the real me. I recently got rejected by a girl who I asked out too. When I am friendly with people I can be quite talkative, funny and a lot of fun to be around I believe.

I’ve never had any problems in getting people to like me but I have never been able to talk to girls well enough to become friends with them.

I am a smart, decent looking guy but I am just shy around girls. So does anyone have any tips for me on how to talk to girls please? I know that I am an interesting person really, I am just not good at showing it until I’m comfortable with people

Dean answers:

Girlsl really like sweet and sensitive guys so if you see a girl that looks attractive,be confident and talk to her ask her what she do for a living for example,if she likes sports try a club or a class that is all about sports and stuff eventually she will start to like you!!!

Thomas asks…

Good things to talk to girls about? I’m shy?

I am an 18 year old boy who has not had a girlfriend and only one of my friends is a girl. I’ve always been shy around girls and have never been able to show off the real me. I recently got rejected by a girl who I asked out too. When I am friendly with people I can be quite talkative, funny and a lot of fun to be around I believe.

I’ve never had any problems in getting people to like me but I have never been able to talk to girls well enough to become friends with them.

I am a smart, decent looking guy but I am just shy around girls. So does anyone have any tips for me on how to talk to girls please? I know that I am an interesting person really, I am just not good at showing it until I’m comfortable with people.

Dean answers:

Trust me its better to show the real you. Once u do that we dont stop talking

Paul asks…

How can I talk to girls when I’m shy and sweet?

I’m an eighteen year old boy who has not had a girlfriend and only one of my friends is a girl. I’ve always been shy around girls and have never been able to show off the real me. I recently got rejected by a girl who I asked out too. When I am friendly with people I can be quite talkative, funny and a lot of fun to be around I believe.

I’ve never had any problems in getting people to like me but I have never been able to talk to girls well enough to become friends with them.

I am a smart, decent looking guy but I am just shy around girls. So does anyone have any tips for me on how to talk to girls please? I know that I am an interesting person really, I’m just not good at showing it until I’m comfortable with people.

Dean answers:

This dude i like is shy and a sweety…lol

just find mutual friends that are friends with your girl friend and start talking to them and them itll seem easier.

Have her help you.

Donald asks…

how do shy guys let girls talk to them?

im kinda shy and theres a girl i like and i want her to talk to me not me how do i do that

Dean answers:

Shy guys let girls talk to them by telling girls to do so

Good luck!

David asks…

How would a shy girl talk to a simi shy guy?

okay, I feel kinda silly for asking this, but….
There’s this boy that I really like. He’s simi shy, like he’s shy unless he knows you, that’s how I am. I want him to notice me, but he doesn’t. And I want to talk to him, and hang out with him, but I can never get myself to do so. We’ve known of eachother, one of my best friends knows him and is friends with him. And in the past, he’s done some suttle hinting that he likes me. My two best friends that know him say that they think that he likes me, but I can’t agree becuase he doesn’t do any of that anymore. . .any sugestions?

Dean answers:

Well, if you have close friends that are friends with him, get them to help. All ya gotta do is see if all of you can hang out sometime, ask your friend to set it up. And when you DO hang out, just try to flirt with him =]

Robert asks…

Why do i feel shy to talk to girl whom i love ?

i love a girl lower my level.i don’t feel shy talking to girls. But i feel shy to talk to those girls whom i love and have feeling.What can i do ? How can i become close with her ? How can i express her my feeling ?
Please help me ………

Dean answers:

Dont worry being shy around someone you love is normal. I think you should start by talking to her more often, make a converstaion when you see her. Always greet her, say hi to her everytime you see her. Help her out, dont be shy, encourage yourself that you can do this. Then when you think its the right time to tell her.. Then tell her what you really feel about her!

Chris asks…

How can I not get really shy around girls?

I always get really shy around girls unless if they are my friend but I only have like 4 girls who are friends. I can talk to guys very easily but I always clam up when I talk to girls. How can I stop this?

Dean answers:

What you need to do is stand up and be a man. “Man likes women, man goes after woman.” Confidence is key. Girls find confidence in guys very attractive. You don’t even have to talk to them to make them think that you have confidence. When you walk by across a girl that you interest, simply look at them in the eyes and smile. It’s gonna be a bit hard if you’re shy but try your best you look at them for a long time. But surely, they will look at you and smile back. Practice this every where, school, outside, mall etc.. Keep doing this until you feel comfortable starting a conversation with them. It’ll take time but eventually you will notice that you’re not that shy guy anymore when it comes to girls. Good luck!

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