Dean Answers Questions About Internet Dating Tips
Dean | Jan 03, 2012 | Comments 0
William asks…
So… internet dating advice is usually kinda bogus, right?
I was thinking, and I wondered, “what advice would I give girls on how to get guys?”
Then it hit me: I like girls that are smart, girls that have the same interests as me, and girls that are self-confident and independent. On the other hand, another guy might like a girl who’s bubbly and brainless, but has a hot body. Then some other guy might like an emo girl who wears all black and smokes. It’s all about what crowd you roll with.
So these sites with dating tips only cover the basic human instincts, and most of them use the stereotypical bar girl straight out of the movies as a basic mold. Therefore, without knowing the girl personally, there’s really no way to accurately map her interests beyond recognizing and pointing out reactions that ANY girl would have.
This is also very hard to do without knowing the guy personally. Which is why I think it’s harder than it seems to know what makes 2 people click. There’s no formula for it.
Just as there’s no real reason for this post. Just rambling. What do you guys think?
Dean answers:
Meh, I don’t know about that. I mean, I’m sure some people are like you described-only wanting to date people of the same style and the same interests. I just think that isn’t the majority. I like dating someone that takes me a little out of my element and shows me new things, so I just like women in general. Of course I’m not into all of them, not even most, but I don’t have anything super specific I’m looking for, other that smart, attractive, and fun to spend time with.
Daniel asks…
has anyone ever meet anybody ever meet somebody over an internet dating site?
i just want to know of any success stories of anybody meeting someone over myspace facebook etc and have been successful please let me know if this has happened and give me some tips on how to make it happen right thanks.
Dean answers:
Yes, i know someone married with the girl he met online, and he’s a nice guy, she’s a nice girl.
I think the only thing matters is you do love each other after you know about each other, but not how you meet. So i’t's totally ok if you fall in love with someone you meet online. Just be sure that both of you are sincere.
Good luck.
John asks…
What are good sources for gay dating tips/advice?
It seems like there are billions of venues to turn to if you need tips on dating/finding a girl, with a bunch of tips on the internet, magazines, books, and experiences from people. But it seems like gay dating advice is a hidden gem of knowledge. So, are there any good places that cater to tips on gay relationships/dating? I have so many questions and such, and I am at the point(22 years old by the way) where I would like to at least meet someone else who is gay and at least try “dating.” I mean, I don’t mind living my life where everyone I know is straight…but it would be nice to at least get experience and find that awesome guy. I’ve never met someone who is gay, so sadly I never got the chance to share thoughts about liking guys to people who can relate.
Dean answers:
I know it sounds crazy but look at Craig’ss list, that’s how i meet the love of my life. You don’t need to look for love there, maybe just ask if anyone knows any local hangouts where you could meet someone new. It’s worth a try.
Good luck!
Charles asks…
Internet dating — How do you weed out the creeps?
I just posted my profile on match.com (without a photo). I’ve never used an internet dating website before. I’ve received some winks and a couple of emails. Any tips for (1) identifying the guys I want to respond to and (2) determining what kind of relationship he is looking for?
Dean answers:
Within a few correspondences they usually tell you. If they ask creepy questions, and only want to talk about sex he is creep and can safely be weeded.
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