Dean Answers Questions About Pick Up Women At The Gym

Handsome at young age vs Handsome at an older age (Males specifically)?

It’s pretty hard to express my question, but I will try to do my best. Basically, as it says in the title, is it better to be handsome at a younger age, or at an older? I know it sounds weird, but before you start judging me please give me a chance to explain what I mean by that.

I have a friend who’s 22 year old(I’m 20 btw). He’s really into gym, has an amazing body has a very good car, doesn’t even know what “financial problems” mean. Looks very carefully after himself, buys all the top male beauty products and so on.And he often says to me: I feel like I’m on top of the world right now. On the other hand, he has some real issues with his health, and I mean very serious issues, which will definetely get muuuuuch worse in the future (due to the fact that he uses steroids). He’s not intelligent at all, the main reason why he goes to college, is because he can meet a lot of new people, that he can party with. He also often insists, that he doesn’t care about the future. I’m not judging him, because maybe, this is how you supposed to live your life, in other words “enjoy it while you’re young”.

COMPARED TO

My uncle, who’s in his mid 40′s. Never ever picked up a bar or a dumbell, before the age of 35. Was skinny most of his life, wasn’t too attractive, and was a real geek (Has a degree in business management) and most importantly he never had any success with women before mid 30′s. As I mentioned earlier he’s 44 years old, owns a big bakery, doesn’t have a family (although he has 2 kids), but over the past 7-8 years, has been with a lot of gorgeous women (the oldest girlfriend was about 35 years olds, his g/f’s were mainly within the age range of 28-33, which if I’m not wrong is considered to be the peak age for women, correct me if I’m wrong) Feels great about himself, doesn’t have any financial problems, even though he’s 44 he looks very young, feels energetic, and has a great body shape (never ever used steroids), is very concerned with his looks, uses gel all the time, has amazing perfumes, has a very clean and white teeth, and etc. He also knows what he wants out of life, has goals that he precisely follows and is extremely intelligent, I can talk with him for hours.

So my question is: Which one of the two people, would you follow? I mean would you follow the first example? Enjoy the early to late 20′s, do as much crazy stuff as you can, and have a rather sad future, in terms of health,. Or would you rather, be a geek, study very hard, try to achieve something in your career, and have a very “fun” life in your 20′s, but then catch up when you get older? Is it just my uncle who still falls in love like every week, or is it a normal thing to do for an older person, who hasn’t seen much fun in his early 20′s. And I mean, either way you’ll be have to sacrifice/live consequences for a certain period of time in your life, so is it better to sacrifice your youth, or live consequences when you’re older?

Also what kind of males, most females are after? Would a 27 year old female choose a partner of the same age, or someone who’s 33-35? I know it might be difficult to answer, however any efforts would be really appreciated.

And not just in terms of success with women, but also in terms of how you feel about yourself, which is a more fulfilling life in your opinion, and why?

Any answers will be very appreciated, especially from older people, who have a lot of experience regarding this case and/or lived a similar life to either what my friend is living right now, or my uncle. Thank you for reading my question!!! (sorry if it’s too long, lol!)

work school and gym 16 hours a day?

I go to school from 8am-3pm, gym from 3:30-4:30 and work from 4:30 til 12am and my wife argues at me the whole time about me dealing with other women or talking to them allegedly throughout the day, we’ve both had problems with mental affairs but now Im too busy and not interested in dealing with other women, Im focused. She wants all passwords and phone records and really its bothering me caus eshe doesnt get much done when checking my email each hour and calling me all day while Im at school or work. if she was calling to say Hi genuinely that would be great but just to hear how fast my phone picks up to call back and say I must be on the phone with some B!@#*, thats alot to deal with. love her , think this can be worked out. I have problems with her past infidelities too but I cant harp on them all day because my performance across the board would suffer.