Dean Answers Questions About Pick Up Women At Work

John asks…

When should I call a 22 year old women if she dosent pick up someone elses phone shes living with?

Heres the problem I got a number from a 22yrs women, she had to ask this older women for permission which I’m guessing she lives with her grandmother. Here are the issues.

1. I called twice the next day at 3:45pm then 5:45pm.

2. I cant leave a message, instead a automatic voice messanger comes on saying “Sorry voice message is unavilble, please call back later thankyou”

3. She is 22 so I figure since during the day “propably at work” she didn’t pick up maybe I should call around 8:45pm or 9pm is that alright?

4. Sorry if I may sound ignorant, but this women is Mexican American and I’m African American. I serious wonder if her Mother or Grandmother is not telling her that I’m calling. NOTE: The older women she was with seemed kind of mean, The reason why I say that is because I said by and have a nice day to both women and the older one just stared at me without a reply back or smile….propably she felt as if I was only “acting” like I was a gentlemen and judge me by my look “braids, gucci reading glasses, timberland boots and erring on the side ETC”….I had a cotton botton to the top polo shirt, the pants where justa little bit baggy not too baggy but I came up to her with nothing but respect and even told the older women sorry if I caused any interruption.

What do you think and When should I call this beautiful young women I met?

Dean answers:

Short answer, call her when she’s home. Finding out when that might be could be a problem. You’re on the right track though, with varying your call times. The general rule is to not call more than once a day. Twice a day isn’t that bad, though.

A LOT of women get off on getting called, and not picking up. It may not make sense, but it is true. She may have re-interpreted something you said, her grandmother may be interfering, or any number of things may be going on. Life is too short to get hung up on one woman who apparently “has issues”. Call in a couple days if you want, but don’t get hung up on her.

William asks…

WOMEN please explain a pick up line?

So there was this absolutely gorgeous girl at the club. Best looking girl there. Any guy that comes up to her fails miserably. One guy normal looking everyday joe comes up to her and the next thing you see is she’s smiling and looks impressed and lets him buy her a drink and gets her REAL phone number. (it’s real because he calls her a few days later and it was her).

What he said he told her was. ONE LINE. He said he came up to her and said “my friend said i’d be really good for you”. How is that an impressive pick up line? remember this guy is no brad pitt, no george clooney, no orlando bloom. This guy is an ORDINARY joe. How does that pick up line work? that’s ALL he said and then she smiled and laughed and giggled and absolutely LOVED that line.

WOMEN, how does that work? Please explain to me why that line is so great? i don’t understand it, what’s so special about it?

Dean answers:

How well a “line” works depends on the girl and what kind of mood she’s in. “I lost my number, Can I have yours?” could work if the girl is feeling silly and the guy delivers it right…..you just never know.

David asks…

What is the best kind of women’s deoderant that I can pick up at an A &P?

I am looking for a deoderant that smells reasonably, is good for sweat blocking, and works all day. Non gel, and something I can wear with black clothing. Price is not an issue, but something you can pick up at a grocery store.
Anyone got a solution that works well? All suggestions are apreciated.

Dean answers:

BAN. This deoderant is abs. Fabulous. They have the best scents, and it doesn’t leave any white marks. It doesn’t come in gel form, and I wore it to softball camp for 11 hours straight and I didn’t smell!

Joseph asks…

What is the deal with the coffee houses? Is it a pick up spot for singles?

My friend has been dating a guy that insists that he must do all of his work at a coffee shop. He does freelance work. He will sit at a given handful of shops for hours and “work“. Late in the evening also. I told her I find this suspect. It sounds like he is there to pick up women. She says he can concentrate better in the coffee shop, he lives alone, why not at home? What’s the deal guys? Anyone work exclusively in a coffee house as opposed to home? Why?

Dean answers:

Some people focus better when in that type of environment. However, a coffee shop is a GREAT place to meet women (or anything for that matter).

I wouldn’t come down on the guy, just because he’s at a coffee shop doesn’t mean he’s trying to meet women.

Daniel asks…

Ok I need advise to pick up on women?

Im now single and really have no secrets on how to pick a women up. There is a nice and cute lady at my work. I really would like to date her. What are some tips. I dont want to be single.

Dean answers:

Send her flowers anonymously at first and then casually ask about them… Maybe she will start talking to you about who could it be.. It will reveal to her what kind of person she is….. And then when youre really comfortable then you can admit your crush and ask her out..

Thomas asks…

why do women think when men use cheasy pick up lines..?

do women actually think men believe cheasy pick up lines work

lmao. no ill answer it for u ladies. we do not think they work if we use one its because we are messing around… stop taking everything so serious and maybe you might actually find a guy you’d be happy with….

however to even think that you are gonna find that guy while your getting blitzed at a bar is down right comical…….

why do women take everything so seriously is truly a question needing answered.

Dean answers:

Some pick up lines have to do with sex.

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