Dean Answers Questions About Pick Up Women Books
Dean | Dec 16, 2011 | Comments 0
Donald asks…
Does anyone know of a good book on chatting up women/dating?
I am single and from the UK.
Whilst I have no problems talking to women, I am not a natural flirt. Plus, I don’t really know if flirting is necessarily the best pick up.
Does anyone know of any books, written in the UK for chatting women up & getting her to have a date with you.
Dean answers:
Yep, it’s called the Book of Life Experience. Realistically I think you need to play to your own strengths, i.e. I was shy at the start of Uni so I started playing the guitar and going out more, far out of my comfort zone. You are right though, “flirting” is not the best pick up way at all. First, find someone you think you share a connection with. Next, pluck up the courage to initiate a conversation with her about something you know a lot about, but think that she will talk about. You ask the questions, get her talking. If you know enough about the topic, it will put you at ease as you should be able to carry it for as long as you need. NOTE! Cardinal Rule #1: You must speak less than her, i.e. 33/66 of the conversation should be yours as girls so rarely find a guy who is humble.
Good luck!
James asks…
does mystery from VH1′s pickup artist tv show’s book really help u pick up women?
somebody told me it was good lol but its hard for me to believe this after watching the show its seemed like a joke to me
Dean answers:
No its really not all that stuff that he talked about really works i know this from experience. But you see the first thing you have to under stand is you need confidence in your self. Cause with out that theirs nothing and all that he teaches would be just meaning less.
Paul asks…
Gilrs what do u think of those books that teach guys how to pick up woman?
what do u think about men reading those books do u think it is stupid
do those books really work so can i pick up one book and all of a sudden be a huge player
Dean answers:
In all honesty i don’t think you can learn to pick up woman from a book.
Yea i know some guys are shy, or afraid to ask a girl out… But here’s the thing. I’d rather you be yourself than read some book and do what someone else is telling you you SHOULD be doing.
No book can tell you how to act. Each guy has a certain level of charm. So if you’re nervous or shy and need help askin out a girl as your buddies. Don’t look for some self help book that’s going to make you feel worse about yourself.
Good Luck!
William asks…
Girls….What do you think of “so called” Pick Up Artists?
I’ve actually read a little bit of guys who refer to themselves as “Pick Up Artists” or claim to be part of the “Seduction Community”. Would any woman go for any of this stuff? And what would you think of a guy if you found out that he read books about how to pick up women or if he tried any of the things written in their books?
Dean answers:
Pickup artist sucks
answer my question?
Http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100329175417AAOXfNJ&r=w
Charles asks…
Do you think this guy prowls around bookstores to pick up women?
Not too long ago, I went to Barnes & Noble to hang out and read. When I was sitting and reading at one point, I noticed this middle-aged man who was lurking about. We sort of made eye contact and smiled. I also noticed that he sort of kept walking around nearby. I didn’t feel like talking to him and I was afraid he would approach me, so I quickly left. I went to Barnes & Noble again last night, and sure enough, he was there! I could tell that he noticed me. And again, I was afraid he would approach me, so I left almost immediately after coming there. He seems to be “dressed to impress”, and last night when I came, I noticed that he didn’t have any books or anything. Rather, he was just holding a cup of coffee and acting as though he was hanging about. Does it sound to you like he is just lurking around the bookstore to pick up women?
Dean answers:
Why does it matter to you? You aren’t attracted to him so let it go. He may or not be but at least he isn’t lurking around bars buying young women drinks and trying to take advantage of them. It’s funny that when guys ask women where to meet nice girls they tell them the bookstore and then complain when they see them the exact place they tell them to go. HAHA, we can’t win!!!
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