Dean Answers Questions About Pick Up Women Online

I found a pheromone supplement online. If I smoke will woman still be able to pick up the scent?

It’s supposed to release my own pheromones. Will it work if I smoke? What does it take to increase the amount yu produce?

Are there any GOOD places to chat online anymore?

There was once a day when one could get online and chat with real people and have a good time in online chatrooms.

Now everything is infested with bots, idlers, filth and garbage. Is there anywhere to chat for fun that isn’t just filled with guys trying to pick up women or ads for adult/medicinal crap?

I’ve been dating girls online for too long, I don’t know how to talk to women in real life; can you help?

So basically, I’m 20 years old go to school, work, better than average looking, and only have dated online thus far in my life. I have a hard time transitioning from the web to the real world when it comes to talking to girls I like. I’m fully articulate, funny, and witty when it comes to friends, family and even cute girls that I know; but I seem to only like strangers (women I haven’t met before or barely know) and I have no clue how to approach them. It’s so much easier picking up girls online because well you have a screen and atleast a dozen or so miles to hide behind. My type is usually the alternative, tatted or pierced, artsy type of girl and i’m looking for a slow, easy going relationship(pretty much dating with training wheels) if it helps. So uhhmm i guess the question is what do women like and want in a guy(aside from everything), how to approach “that girl in the back of english 101 class” and uhhm any other advice. Please and thank you

Been hurt by women too many times, how do I put my guard up to avoid being hurt in the future?

Hi every women I have dated I treat nice, I am respectful, dont cheat. But every single one I have dated have been games players, mean B******, liars etc. And in the long run I end up being hurt. I have even tried dating a women online ( she is english in england ) we talked on the phone all the time and we really had alot in common, and we made plans to be together she felt she loved me ( I know its crazy because we havent meet). But one day we got into an arguement and she broke up with me ( we never really argued before), we talked for 6 months and I thought this girl was the one for me and just like that she broke it off. I was depressed for an entire month even thought about suicide. Then we talked again and she wanted to work things out and we did then two weeks later she emails me saying she doesnt feel the same about me and is still mad with me. We havent spoken since ( its been two months). Another women I met alone that lived somewhat close to me we talked alot on the phone and one day we decided to meet. She tells me where she lives and I drive out to see her ( almost 3 hrs away) and when I get to her address I call her and no answer we didnt meet. She did this twice to me and she also had me waiting when she said she would come to see me and never came. So I stop talking to her. I am really tired of women by now, always moaning about they want someone to treat them right, but when they get that person they act like idiots. So after all this I realized I dont trust women anymore. People say wait the right women will come but im tired of waiting im 23 for gods sake I dont want to go thru 50 women to find a halfway decent one. I also realize that women like when your mean to them. For example a friend and myself picked up a chick that we meet one time, I was being nice to her and she completely blew me off and ignored me the entire time. My other friend was being a complete as to her and he isnt even a good looking guy and she was all over him. He told me thats how you have to treat women to get buy these days because if your nice to them they will play you and you will get hurt. But I dont know how to put my guard up because I never have before, any advice? And even if I was to meet a women thats ” nice” how am I supposed to trust them most of them are nice to begin with then they act like b***** to me any advice?

Its just hard to be alone and sit and wait for the right girl to come when all your friends and everyone around you has a gf its really frustrating but if thats the only way then I will wait.

Its kind of a catch 22. People say dont look for the right girl wait for her to come to you, then I dont look and I get nothing and they say how do you expect to get results if you dont put effort in. Then people say your not trying hard enough, then I go and meet women and this is wait I get. Cant even find a girl online thats sad. Its a lose lose situation it seems like

Been hurt by women too many times, how do I put my guard up so I dont get hurt in the future?

Hi every women I have dated I treat nice, I am respectful, dont cheat. But every single one I have dated have been games players, mean B******, liars etc. And in the long run I end up being hurt. I have even tried dating a women online ( she is english in england ) we talked on the phone all the time and we really had alot in common, and we made plans to be together she felt she loved me ( I know its crazy because we havent meet). But one day we got into an arguement and she broke up with me ( we never really argued before), we talked for 6 months and I thought this girl was the one for me and just like that she broke it off. I was depressed for an entire month even thought about suicide. Then we talked again and she wanted to work things out and we did then two weeks later she emails me saying she doesnt feel the same about me and is still mad with me. We havent spoken since ( its been two months). Another women I met alone that lived somewhat close to me we talked alot on the phone and one day we decided to meet. She tells me where she lives and I drive out to see her ( almost 3 hrs away) and when I get to her address I call her and no answer we didnt meet. She did this twice to me and she also had me waiting when she said she would come to see me and never came. So I stop talking to her. I am really tired of women by now, always moaning about they want someone to treat them right, but when they get that person they act like idiots. So after all this I realized I dont trust women anymore. People say wait the right women will come but im tired of waiting im 23 for gods sake I dont want to go thru 50 women to find a halfway decent one. I also realize that women like when your mean to them. For example a friend and myself picked up a chick that we meet one time, I was being nice to her and she completely blew me off and ignored me the entire time. My other friend was being a complete as to her and he isnt even a good looking guy and she was all over him. He told me thats how you have to treat women to get buy these days because if your nice to them they will play you and you will get hurt. But I dont know how to put my guard up because I never have before, any advice? And even if I was to meet a women thats ” nice” how am I supposed to trust them most of them are nice to begin with then they act like b***** to me any advice?
Thanks for all your answers its just hard to be alone and sit and wait for the right girl to come when all your friends and everyone around you has a gf its really frustrating but if thats the only way then I will wait.
See thats the thing its kind of a catch 22. People say dont look for the right girl wait for her to come to you, then I dont look and I get nothing and they say how do you expect to get results if you dont put effort in. Then people say your not trying hard enough, then I go and meet women and this is wait I get. Cant even find a girl online thats sad. Its a lose lose situation it seems like

hi this women now wants me to pick her up instead of meeting her at the bar on our first date?

but heres the thing i met her online and she doesnt really know me and i dont really know her aside from the telephone. do you think she may want something?