Dean Answers Questions About Sexy Wedding Dresses

David asks…

What site can i buy wedding dresses that look like this…PIC?

http://www.shibawi.com/wedding-dress/sexy-beach-wedding-dresses-for-destination-wedding/
i love the super sexiness and see through of the corset. is there a site i can look at more like these?

Dean answers:

Shiny Orb. It’s a website for wedding apparel and there’s a huge huge wedding dress selection. I think I’ve seen dresses like that on their website. Good luck!

George asks…

Is it wrong/weird that I find women in wedding dresses look very sexy?

With their flawless makeup and their hair up they look simply beautiful…and sexy!

Dean answers:

Wedding dresses are supposed to look elegant and sexy. Women wearing them have typically invested a lot of time and money in every aspect of their appearance for that moment.

What’s not to love?

Donald asks…

What do you think about this new sexy wedding dress trend?

I’m not a fan. I think brides should be able to express themselves but I hate these new “sexy dresses“. With this new trend, dresses are cut down just above the woman’s nipples, usually backless down to the butt, sleeveless and strapless, high slits and some show tummy.

Ugh!!! I think you might look good if you are a profesional super model or a personal trainer for a living but the average person would not. Plus, whats the point of wearing white if you are going to be showing everything you got!

What do you think?
Add: It’s call the “sexy bride” trend. The gowns have all of these elements, low low low necklines, see through or entire tummy showing, slits with legs and backless with possible butt clevage all at once…..
I don’t mind the strapless and sleeveless trend myself. However, not everyone wants to wear that so I just wish there were more options.
Whoa…..some of you need to calm down. While I did express my dislike for this trend, I didn’t personally attack anybody in my question so I would apprecaite you not attacking me. Thank you.
Nonny Mouse……Whoa! I normally agree with the majority of your advice and think you are one of the best people here in this section. I seem to have hit a nerve with this one. Yes, I do like theme weddings. We have a difference of opinion there. All I did was ask a question about people’s opinion on a certain style of dress and shared my own. I did not personally attack anyone or anything like that. I don’t give people thumbs down just because I dont agree with them. I give people thumbs down when they answer a question without explaining their opinion, are rude, or jsut flat out wrong. I think everyone is entittled to their opinion, and it was opinions I was seeking with this question. I don’t think I have the right to tell anyone what kind of wedding they can have or can’t.
Nonny Mouse……Whoa! I normally agree with the majority of your advice and think you are one of the best people here in this section. I seem to have hit a nerve with this one. Yes, I do like theme weddings. We have a difference of opinion there. All I did was ask a question about people’s opinion on a certain style of dress and shared my own. I did not personally attack anyone or anything like that. I don’t give people thumbs down just because I dont agree with them. I give people thumbs down when they answer a question without explaining their opinion, are rude, or jsut flat out wrong. I think everyone is entittled to their opinion, and it was opinions I was seeking with this question. I don’t think I have the right to tell anyone what kind of wedding they can have or can’t. I feel like I have been very polite and well mannered on this website.
I thought so many of these answers were intresting and had valid points so I’m putting this up for vote. Thanks to all who voted.

Dean answers:

I agree with you. Your wedding day is a celebration of the couple’s love, romance, and beauty of making such an amazing commitment to one another, not for the bride to show off her body. Most weddings have grandparents and other older people there, and it’s not an appropriate place to be showing booty, stomach, or cleavage. Save that for the wedding night and honeymoon! I don’t have any issues with the strapless trend (like some people on here do) because if anything, shoulders and arms are the only thing you are really showing on your wedding day!

Joseph asks…

Would you want bridesmaids to wear SEXY, revealing dresses on your wedding day?

My brother is getting married. His fiance’s sisters both picked out sexy, revealing evening/prom dresses that are NOT bridesmaid dresses to wear as bridesmaids. I am a woman and suppose to be in this wedding too. These dresses have cleavage/breast areas revealed and have a long slit down one side of the dress towards the front revealing 1 leg (almost the full leg) on the dress. My mother even agreed with me that these dresses seem inappropriate to wear as a bridesmaid.
I want to wear a more conservative dress that also fits me/ looks decent on me, as I am larger in size than FSIL’s 2 sisters. FSIL is letting her sisters order any dress they want, in different fabrics (I think they will look strange together side by side). YET FSIL wants to try and tell me what to wear and is only worried that I will pick a dress that will look odd/out of place next to her sexy sisters’ dresses! I found appropriate dresses that match color and even fabric to 1 of the sisters dresses and yet FSIL still has a problem with my choices. It really upsets me that her sisters can wear anything they want yet she won’t let me pick a normal bridesmaid dress that is appropriate/ conservative and will look good on my body. She doesnt trust my own judgment about what will look good on ME.

Here are the dresses her sisters are wearing to the wedding as bridesmaids (note that each dress is labeled as prom or evening dress, not a bridesmaid dress). Do you think these are appropriate to wear to a wedding as a bridesmaid?

http://www.elegantmart.com/Fashion/One-Shoulder-Prom-Dress-by-GIGI__15111.aspx

http://www.elegantmart.com/Fashion/Divalicious-Evening-Dress__14146.aspx

And here is a dress I like. Do you think this dress will match (when I pick royal blue as the color to match the sisters’ dresses) and look appropriate? Am I crazy for not wanting to show off my leg or boobs at a wedding?! It hurts me that she won’t tell her sisters what to wear and lets them go crazy, yet constantly questions my judgment about what I should wear. She also seems to think she has to lecture me about how this is a FORMAL event and that I need to wear a formal dress! Even though I am choosing proper formal bridesmaid dress options that I have shown her. She also wants me to order from some random website her sisters picked yet has a problem with me ordering from another website that cost less!

http://www.thecustomdresses.com/bridesmaid-dresses/new-styles/alexia-style-bridesmaid-dresses-2906.html

I would really appreciate advice from WOMEN who are over 20 who have been bridesmaids before and/or a bride.
So far I only have opinions from a man who doesn’t understand fashion for weddings and a teenage girl.
I am larger in size than her sisters so I have to wear certain styles (such as rouching, etc at the waistline) and FSIL doesn’t seem to understand. I have given her several examples of similar real bridesmaid dresses (not prom) and she hates every real bridesmaid dress I suggest. She seems to want her bridesmaids to wear sexy dresses that are more for a party/ new years eve than a bridesmaid dress. I don’t know what to say to FSIL now. She quote “doesn’t want me to look plain compared to her sisters”
What really upsets me is that her sisters picked out their own dresses. They didn’t listen to the bride or go by her opinion! They got what they wanted. And yet the bride wants to tell me what to wear but not her sisters. There is no equality here.

Dean answers:

I think that dress fits in with the others beautifully. There is the similar sparkely detail around the neckline, there is similar pleating and draping in the bodice, it is full length and very formal, but in a style that will flatter someone who isn’t a stick. I don’t think those other dresses are as awfully sexy and revealing as I was expecting from your description, but neither would I, as a full figured and fairly modest woman, be comfortable wearing them.

People’s reading comprehension (or lack thereof) astounds me sometimes. The bride isn’t telling her to wear one of those dresses, she told them all to pick what they want to a point but gave her sisters complete freedom and keeps vetoing everything that the author finds.

It is so frustrating when naturally thin women just don’t understand how difficult it is to find something that flatters our figures and how we’ve gotten it down to a science. I assume you have tried explaining to her that you will look “plainer” and much more jarring next to her sisters in a dress that hangs on your bumpies all wrong than you would in a more understated but flattering dress.

Do you live close enough to her that you could do a shopping trip? Maybe the visual of trying on the dresses that would flatter her sisters that are just all wrong for you and then trying on some things that are more suited to your figure would help her understand. Skinny women just don’t understand the art of camouflage, and that slinky is just not a look that works when you are lumpy.

I’m not sure on the colors here and I don’t know your exact problem spots but I found a site that seems to have some stuff that might make her happy.

Http://www.lightinthebox.com/Jane-Krakowski-Sheath–Column-One-Shoulder-Sweep–Brush-Train-Sleeveless-Elastic-satin-Golden-Globe–Evening-Dress–FSH0556-_p87311.html

http://www.lightinthebox.com/Empire-Spaghetti-Straps-Floor-length-Chiffon-Elastic-Satin-Evening-Dress–WSH04202-_p144474.html

http://www.lightinthebox.com/2010-style-Empire-Scoop-Floor-length-Chiffon-Evening-Dress–FSH0487-_p83630.html

http://www.lightinthebox.com/Adrienne-Frantz-A-line-V-neck-Floor-length-Taffeta-Emmy–Evening-Dress–FSD0359-_p67979.html

http://www.lightinthebox.com/2010-style-A-line-Scoop-Sleeveless-Floor-length-Chiffon-Evening-Dress–FSH0488-_p83631.html

As for the rest, the stress of wedding planning does weird things to the logic and reasonableness centers of your brain and then you look back later and wonder – “Who was that crazy person?” . Just try to stay calm and keep sending suggestions until you find one you both can live with. And never underestimate the power of good foundation garments, a bridal strapless comes in every size imaginable and does wonders, they’re practically corsets but a lot more comfortable. I still wear mine for special occasions, even if I don’t need the strapless part. Also: don’t be afraid of altering. If you find a kind of plain but formal enough in style dress, try to imagine where you could have a seamstress add some bling to pump it up to the sparkle level of the other dresses. Slits can also be stitched up to a level that is more comfortable to you, say knee height.

I so understand having sisters in law that make you feel huge. Both of mine are just twigs. (I made sure to choose my bridesmaid dresses with the heaviest bridesmaid in mind, I knew my SsIL would look good in most anything.) Good luck!

Richard asks…

Did you think Britney got turned on when she snogged Madonna wearing knee-high boots and a sexy wedding dress?

Dean answers:

No, sounds like u did though.

James asks…

what accessories to go with a gorgeous black sexy dress for wedding dinner & shoes?

I will been taking a black evening small bag that has black shinning beads in it.

Dean answers:

Honestly, since it’s a wedding dinner, and the dress is sexy, I would keep the accessories simple. You don’t want to overshadow the bride, which might offend her. There is nothing worse that a bridezilla who takes it out on you!

I would get basic black pumps, and silver jewelry. Your bag has enough sparkle for your overall look. If you need a wrap, then look at black with silver threading.

Paul asks…

What was the designer of the sexy see through corset dress on Say Yes to the Dress?

It was glittery and it was strapless and in the episode there were two brides who wanted it and I really wanna know the designer of the dress because she’s like famous for her sexy wedding dresses and I want that dress for my wedding. BTW I think the designer’s name started with a P

Dean answers:

Pnina tornei, probably. She is israeli, like me

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