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How To Get A Girl In Bed On The First Night

My name is Dean Cortez, and I’m one of the most notorious pickup artists in the world. I’ve banged beautiful women all the way from Boston to Bangkok, and I’m constantly developing, testing and perfecting new techniques to help guys improve their skills.

When I go out to bars and clubs, my goal is not to meet women for polite conversations about current events. My goal is not to make new friends. I’m out to get laid!

I know a lot of guys would love to able to take women home every time they go out, but they just don’t know how to get a girl in bed the fast, easy way. They simply lack the confidence & skills to make it happen. So right now, let me share some tips on how to get a girl in bed the first time you meet her. This is otherwise known as getting a One Night Stand.

When you’re hunting for a One Night Stand, time is of the essence. Depending on where you live, you might only have a few hours (at most) to identify the right candidate and get her back to your place.

This means you can’t afford to waste time on girls who CANNOT or WILL NOT go home with you. (Even if she’s totally into you, there could be factors that make a One Night Stand impossible!)

So, you’ll want to find out several key things that will tell you whether sex tonight is possible. This is also known as figuring out the Logistics. If the Logistics are all wrong, none of my other tips on how to get a girl in bed are going to work.

If you fail to gather this information, you might find yourself chatting for a half-hour with a girl who seems “good to go” — only to then find out she needs to leave because she’s the designated driver for her friends, or has to be up for work at six in the morning.

Remember this: when shooting for a One Night Stand, rejection is not the enemy. The enemy is the “30 minute conversation to nowhere” — wasting precious time on a girl that who can’t (or won’t) hook up with you tonight. Maximize the use of your time by gaming the girls MOST LIKELY to get sexual with you!

You’re going to find out this logistical information in the first few minutes of the conversation, which is also known as the “comfort building” stage. (I explain this in more detail in my One Night Stands book, but basically, it’s necessary for you to go through this stage in order to make her feel comfortable enough to get sexual with you. Women won’t “loosen up” and start feeling sexual attraction until you’ve built some comfort.)

So here are the three things you’ll want to find out when screening for Logistics. (Note: You don’t need to ask these questions directly. You can gather this information in subtler ways. I’ll give some examples.)

How To Get A Girl In Bed: The Three Things You Must Find Out

The first piece of Intell you’ll want to find out is…

How To Get A Girl In Bed, Question #1: Who is she here with, and how do they all know each other?

Women almost never go to bars and clubs alone. They’re with someone. Find out who she’s with, and what the nature of the relationship is.

If she’s there with her boyfriend, you should probably hit the “eject” button. (It’s possible to snatch a girl away from her boyfriend — I’ve done it on numerous occasions — but usually this is a Logistical headache and can turn into a waste of time.)

If she’s there on a first date with a guy she doesn’t seem to be into, you have a shot at a One Night Stand. But again, the logistics will be tricky. I suggest getting her phone number and moving on to a better candidate.

Whenever you start talking to girl groups or mixed groups (guys and girls), get in the habit of asking how the people in the group know each other. You never know what the nature of the relationship is until you ask. Maybe there are guys in the group, but it turns out they’re just co-workers of the girl you want to hook up with. If so, they probably won’t pose any challenge.

The next piece of Intell you want to find out is…

How To Get A Girl In Bed, Question #2: How did she get here?

Here, you’re finding out the transportation situation. If she drove herself to the venue alone, it’s going to be easier to get her back to your place than if she rode along with friends. If she drove with friends, it’s going to be a lot easier if she was a passenger in the car, not the “designated driver” for the whole crew tonight.

I won’t directly ask her “how did you get here” since that question sounds a bit weird. Instead, I might say, “Someone left the lights on in their car outside and it’s going to drain the battery. What kind of car do you drive?”

This is usually enough to get her to say whether she brought her car here tonight, or if her friend drove her, etc.

Here’s a line that works for me every time: “Tell me you’re not the designated driver for your friends, because you and I are partying tonight.” (Or, “because my buddy is bartending tonight and we’re doing shots later.”)

Right here, she’ll tell me her transportation situation. Then I can ask a follow-up question and find out who she came with, if it’s some type of “special night” for them, etc.

If she came with a bunch of her girlfriends for a special “girl’s night out,” it might be tougher to pull her because the other girls in the group usually think they should stick together and leave together. Your target might be worried about looking slutty in front of them if she goes with you.

I didn’t say any of this was impossible! But like I said before, you want to try to identify a solid candidate for a One Night Stand who doesn’t present all sorts of annoying logistical problems.

If she drove her friends to the venue and has to drop them off later, you can arrange to meet up with her after she gets freed up. But this is one of the hardest logistical situations to deal with because during that time that she’s away from you, there’s a strong possibility that she’ll start feeling tired and just want to go home and sleep.

Plus, while she’s driving her friends home you know they’ll be talking and gossiping…and often the other girls will act as “cock blockers.” If they find out she’s supposed to meet you later, they’ll probably fill her head with reasons not to do it. (“You just met the guy an hour ago, and now you’re going to meet him alone in the middle of the night? Are you crazy?”)

However, if you did a good job of charming her friends earlier (and I explain EXACTLY how to “charm the friends” in The One Night Stands Playbook), they may not try to talk her out of meeting you. Still, it’s usually a logistical mess when she has to drop off a bunch of people and then try to meet you afterwards.

Personally, when I find out my target is the driver for her friends tonight, I get her phone number and move on to other prospects. I’m not going to spend my whole evening talking to a girl who has to leave without me. I can always call her later if I want to.

How To Get A Girl In Bed, Question #3: What does she have going on tomorrow?

This is the third piece of information you’ll want to find out. I don’t want to waste my time on a girl who has to be up super-early to be at work, catch a flight, etc. I learned this lesson when I was living in Las Vegas, where many people work in the casino industry and have crazy work hours. Or, they were tourists in town for the weekend and had to be up early to get to the airport.

(As I improved my game, I started using my “One Wild Night” strategy to bang tourist girls regardless — but let’s face it, if she needs to be at work five hours from now, she’s almost certainly going to want to go home and sleep soon.)

Instead of asking her directly, say something like “Tonight I’m going to kick back and have some serious fun…it’s been a long week and tomorrow I’m sleeping in. You too?”

Like I said before, no set of logistics is impossible to overcome. But you always want to try to stack the odds in your favor. The bottom line, when learning how to get a girl in bed: make your approaches, gather Logistics, and figure out the best possible candidate for the One Night Stand. Click here and I’ll going to give you a bunch of killer conversational techniques so that you CONTROL the interaction every step of the way…and lead her all the way to your bedroom ;)

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