How To Master The Art Of Talking To Girls

“How can I tell if a girl like me?” It’s a question that guys ask me frequently.

I’ve been friends with expert seducers for as long as I can remember, and they’ve given me varied answers to this same question.

Now, given that these guys are good with women, I took all their advice in and later wrote them down somewhere.

One of the best ones I received was from my buddy Derek Rake who always manages to “close” a woman, no matter what the situation or the setbacks.

He simply said, “Kiss her. . You’ll know she likes you if she kisses you back.”

You can get the fail-proof first kiss technique, along with Derek’s other Deadly Seduction techniques, by clicking here:

Deadly Seduction – Attract & “Close” Girls FAST

You won’t know if it works for you unless you give the technique a try. And Derek Rake’s advice is actually extremely solid. I just failed to recognize the first step before the kicker.

I used to watch Derek in action, macking on girls at bars. He does something before he goes for the kiss, which makes the woman actually want to kiss him more than he wants to kiss her.

He has figured out a way to “prep” girls for the kiss so that when he makes his move, it’s already in the bag. He succeeds because of the groundwork he lays down.

In our world, we call this “conditioning”, and this is a powerful psychology trick to learn if you want to immediately make a girl like you.

Before you worry about what to talk about with a girl, let me tell you the first thing you need to do…

Your first goal must be to set the stage for attraction, by putting up a frame for her to enter. In order to do this, you’ll got to adjust your OWN frame and make it as strong as possible. I will show you exactly how this works.

The awesome thing about “conditioning” a girl is that is ensures that she will go along with YOUR flow. You won’t need to wonder about whether she likes you or not, because she’ll be following your lead and open to your suggestions. It will be obvious that she’s interested in you, and where this interaction is heading. You must always LEAD the interaction, and not look to her to lead you. This is one of the most common blunders that guys make.

To change your frame, assume that she already likes you. That’s your frame. You believe, and you behave as if, this girl is totally into you. If you act and talk like a guy who KNOWS a girl likes her, she will soon be entering that mode herself without her noticing.

This is because your whole body language changes when you shift your mindset from doubting her attraction for you to knowing for sure that she’s into you.

Think it over. You act differently around a girl who’s chasing you. You’re more relaxed and eager to banter, because your assumption makes you receptive to the little things she puts out to show her attraction.

If this is your mindset when you talk to a woman, you will notice how she’s moving closer, slapping your hand playfully and laughing a little more than usual.

But you probably won’t notice these little details if you aren’t ASSUMING attraction on her part. Why? Because you’re distracted. You’re busy thinking about whether she likes you.

Have you heard how some guys can say “you’re hitting on me, aren’t you” to a girl with a tone so confident that they have the girl giggling?

If you watched me doing this, you might interpret my behavior as a bit cocky. But the girl I’m talking to loves it. This strategy never fails.

This is what we call a “strong frame”, or one that puts a girl in the exact position you want her to be, and that is “she likes you and and you’re noticing.”

On the other hand, if you’re not aware of what’s going on, women will attempt to place you inider of THEIR frames — and when this happens, they lose respect for you and will not feel sexually attracted.

Think of the times when a girl tried to put you down by saying “Oh yeah? Buy me a drink and prove it.”

That’s just one example of the “mind tricks” that girls play on us. This is especially true with hot chicks at bars and clubs, who know they have lots of options. She’s making you feel like you need to EARN her approval, and you’ll need to shell out money in order to buy some of her time. Never take this bait. Instead, create and maintain a strong frame. Bring her into YOUR frame, not the other way around.

This is a pitfall you absolutely must avoid…

When you go along with the wishes of a girl you just met, you’re stepping into her frame and losing control. As long as you stay stuck inside her frame, she stays in the power position.

This trick is powerful if you use it right. With practice, you can start doing this in a way that feels natural and effortless. This is when your game goes from “pretty good” to “totally unstoppable”.

I was blown away the first time I watched a really good pickup artist use these frame control techniques. There are some guys who simply suck everyone around in their frame, making beta males out of every guy in the room, and attracting the best looking girls.

The amazing thing is that this is barely detectable. If your frame is strong enough, she will just play the role that you have chosen for her.

To keep your frame strong, you’ve got to totally believe in it. You have to be more alert to think on your feet just in case someone is trying to diss you or try to bust what your frame is about.

If you’re persuasive enough, women will accept your frame and go inside your reality — and they’re going to enjoy every second.

What makes this tactic extra special is that not many men know it, and this automatically gets you ahead in the game of dating and seducing women if you master this technique.

Just imagine yourself possesing a whole “toolkit” with seduction techniques you can use in every possible situation…they will give you the powers to make any woman like you quickly and leave other men in the dust.

Now here’s the great news. My buddy Derek Rake’s “underground” techniques are now available for you to check out:

Deadly Seduction Tactics – Exposed

This stuff is brutally effective, definitely controversial, and certainly not for “nice guys” who are afraid to get laid.

Try it out:

Deadly Seduction – IGNITE Your Game Tonight

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez