Many of my customers and students have questions on what to talk about with a girl, and how to talk to women in a way that generates attraction. The bottom line is, they want to find out what they can say to make women feel turned on. In reality, however, the first thing these men need to be taught is what type of talk turns women OFF.

For example, one of the worst things you can do when talking to women is come off as a “needy” guy. Most men don’t realize that they are coming across “needy” when talking to a woman. Women, however, pick up on this vibe very quickly — almost instantly. She can very quickly tell that you’re trying too hard to impress her. The reality is that when a girl gets the sense that you’re trying to impress her, it has the opposite effect — it actually turns her off, because you’re coming across as a low-value guy.

Coming across as an insecure guy is extremely unattractive. You can’t talk to women and seem like a nervous wreck and expect her to feel attraction towards you. A woman expects a man to be powerful, confident, and secure with himself. If she senses that you don’t possess those traits she will quickly lose attraction towards you.

Boring guys are also a big turn-off. Knowing how to keep the conversation fun is one of the keys to being successful when talking to women. If you find yourself struggling to fill awkward silences, asking her boring and predictable “interview” questions (“So where are you from?” “What do you do for fun?” etc), it’s a safe bet that the girl you’re talking to is going to tune out pretty quickly.

One of the major factors that will kill a woman’s attraction toward you is displaying a lack of social intelligence. Girls are programmed to be social creatures. They go along with the “social norms.” If a man doesn’t seem aware of what is socially acceptable or “cool” she will quickly dismiss him as being “below” her. Guys display a lack of social intelligence when they make stupid or inappropriate comments, fail to read the “signals” the girl is sending him, or when they keep cracking jokes that no one (except for him) finds entertaining.

When you consider it realistically, you really can’t blame a woman for not wanting a weak, insecure, socially clueless, boring, or needy man. (You can flip it around and ask yourself, would YOU want to hook up with a girl who had those qualities?)

Now let’s talk about…

How can you turn women ON with your words and personality?

You have to know how to talk to women in a way that brings out her fun, flirty, and playful side. There is a song “Girls Just Want to Have Fun…” and the song is correct. This holds true in any environment where women are hanging out socializing (bars, clubs, parties, etc). She is there to have fun. You must be able to flirt with a woman in a way that makes her feel like she is back on the playground with her childhood crush.

Never forget that women are driven by their emotions. When you talk to women, you need to be aware of their emotional state — and the state you want to PUT them in. You can do this by talking about emotional topics like her passions, childhood, vacations, or any other conversation topics that evoke emotion.

You need to display that you are a socially intelligent man. Women are insanely turned on by men they believe have power, status, and social approval. The good news is that you really don’t need to have power, status, etc. You just have to talk to a woman in the same way that these sort of men would talk to her. You have to talk to her from a place of power, status, and SLIGHT superiority. Girls are instinctively attracted to men they feel are slightly above them on the social ladder.

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Next, you must talk to women in a way that brings out the “sexy side” of their personality. The fact is, you can be having the greatest conversation in the world about a topic like “health food” but it will rarely lead to attraction. In order to talk to a woman in a way that leads to sexual attraction you must not be scared to talk about things on a more intimate level. I’m not suggesting that you talk to her about sex, but you can explore some more intimate areas with her. The right topics will create a sense of “deep rapport” (where she feels bonded to you), and when that happens, it’s easy to move into the seduction phase.

Very few guys understand the dynamics of how to talk to women in a way that creates deep interest and attraction. Most guys just wind up boring women.

I know this because I’ve coached hundreds of guys on how to get better with girls. I’ve seen how badly most of them “freeze up” when they have an opportunity to talk to a really hot girl. And if they don’t completely freeze up, they try to talk to her — but come across as needy, boring and insecure, which is a lethal combination.

Women expect a man to be able to LEAD a conversation in a fun, flirty, and sexy way. She wants you to be able to make her laugh, smile, and feel safe and secure around you.

==>For a CHEAT SHEET of lines to say, click here.

In brief, the key to attracting a woman is to talk to her in a way that makes her feel fun, enjoyment and a sense of excitement when she’s around you — while slowly letting the sexual tension build. Then it’s about being dominant enough to go in for the kiss at the exact moment she is waiting to be kissed.

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