How To Walk Up To Girls And Begin The Conversation

How To Walk Up To Girls And Begin The Conversation


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Attracting and approaching women is a tough thing to do. You have to gather up the confidence to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself, and then get her phone number. If the thought of randomly approaching women and striking up conversations makes you feel anxious, I understand that this process can be hard at first, and I’ve been there myself.

But the bottom line is, you’ve got to learn how to approach women if you’re going to expand your social life and elevate your dating life. I know that most guys are intimidated by the thought of approaching women, especially in public places. . If this is how you feel, then you should change your ways so that you can start having the success that you desire.

Practicing in the mirror, and performing some mental exercises, is one way to build up your confidence with approaching women. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.

I’m sure you’ve heard of men approaching women and seducing them instantly. I don’t recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.

For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a genuine question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest McDonalds is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won’t be as hard to do.

If you can learn how not to be afraid of rejection, then you increase your chances of having success with women by a long shot. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You’d be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!


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Techniques on How to Approach a Girl You Like


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Do you want to know how to approach a girl you like without being paralyzed with fear? For the inexperienced, this can be a daunting feat but when you understand the basics, it becomes easier soon thereafter. These tactics I am sharing with you were created in response to how women behave, think and react to situations.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Display Social Value

If you want to secure your chance of talking to a girl, make sure you do this first step. You show off your personality and social clout first so you can build up massive amounts of attraction. To put it simply, you have to display traits that attract women. You can do this by simply making sure that you group is enjoying your presence; greet bartenders and waitresses you know; make an effort to talk to people you know in the room.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Sound and Appear Too Interested

If you think that by being that nice guy and showering a girl with too much attention, you’re turning her on, you’ve been misinformed. This is what players do that’s why they always bring home the bacon. I didn’t say that you’re going to be a jerk. Just give her an impression that you want to chat with her but if she’s not digging it, you’re cool with it. As long as you’ve done tip #1 well, she knows that if she rejects you, it’s going to be her loss. There are a lot of other girls who would be more than willing to give you their attention. So in this game, you make yourself the prize.

One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here’s an example:

“Hey, I see that you’re having fun with your friends but I’m not staying long. I saw you a few minutes ago and I think you look gorgeous. I just thought I’d drop by and say Hi”.

She will smile and thank you for the compliment, do as you said and leave afterwhich.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: Make Use of Neutral or Flirt Openers

Now for some specific approaches and openers…

Neutral openers are the opposite of flirt openers. With neutral openers, you have to make an observation about the girl and make statements or questions related to what you’ve observed.

It tells the girl that you not only appreciate her but you’re also willing to listen to what she has to say. The objective is to make her talk more. Women love it when guys see them as someone of value rather than someone they can sleep with. Don’t get me wrong, for some this might be their goal but the point is, you don’t make it obvious. Otherwise, she’ll just ignore you just like that. Call it ritual if you want but women warm up to these tactics and these are your tickets to her bed or her heart, for the romantics.

On the other hand, flirt openers must be used once you’re sure of your game. If the girl is head over heels for you, you won’t have a problem using flirt openers. When you know how to approach a girl you like using flirt openers, you’ve reached that macking rock star status.

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