The Truth About Pick Up Lines – Do They Work?

The Truth About Pick Up Lines – Do They Work?

A lot of guys think you’re supposed to use some sort of cute pick up line when you try to start a conversation with a girl.

Learning how to approach women might sound like a difficult and painful process. It requires confidence, and the ability to be a smooth talker, to approach women, engage them in a friendly, interesting conversation, and get their phone number. If this is something that you’re not used to doing, then the process can be intimidating, and I know exactly how you feel.

To have success with women, you first have to get one, and that starts with approaching them. Approaching women is something that most men are afraid of. . If this is how you feel, then you should change your ways so that you can start having the success that you desire.

What you ought to know is that your fear of rejection can be overcome, and it can be overcome simply and easily. Maybe you’re reluctant to approach hot girls because you’re worried about rejection, or that something could go wrong — but hey, guess what? That’s life, and things do go wrong! It really doesn’t matter in the long run. What matters is that you have the confidence and courage to walk up to that hottie, introduce yourself, and take a shot.

Practicing in the mirror, and performing some mental exercises, is one way to build up your confidence with approaching women. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.

Don’t bother listening to any “expert” who says it’s possible to seduce a woman within seconds of meeting her. Those kinds of aggressive tactics will only get you a drink thrown in your face, or you’ll simply turn her off quickly and she’ll walk away. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.

For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a genuine question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest Burger king is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won’t be as hard to do.

If you can learn how not to be afraid of rejection, then you increase your chances of having success with women by a long shot. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You’d be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!

You should do whatever it takes to not be intimidated by women. Work on building up your confidence by talking to yourself in the mirror and getting comfortable with who you are. Note: Our free guide to approaching women is only available for a limited time, so be sure to download your copy now.

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Do cheesy or cute pick up lines truly work when you’re trying to approach women? When you imagine a guy using pick up lines, you probably imagine some slimy wanna-be player, his shirt unbuttoned to reveal a gold chain and a furry chest. As a Barry White song plays on the soundtrack, he lurks in the night club hunting for his next conquest…

Then he spots his next “conquest” and makes his move…he approaches her and speaks some cheesy pick up line that causes her to cringe (or throw her drink in his face…)

I’m talking about pick up lines to use on girls like these…

“You’d better know CPR, baby, because you take my breath away.”

“Would you mind loaning me a quarter? [What for?] I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the woman of my dreams.”

“Do you have a map? Because I keep on getting lost in your eyes.”

“Are you religious? Cause you are the answers to all my prayers.”

“You owe me a drink, miss. [Why?] Because the moment I saw you, I dropped mine.”

“Hello. Cupid called. He says to tell you that he needs my heart back.”

“If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.”

“If I followed you home, would you keep me?”

“Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?”

“Was your father an alien? Because there’s nothing else like you on Earth!”

You actually CAN use a funny pick up line to approach a lot of women, and not all of them are that lame. Here are a few that women may actually find charming or flattering — IF you follow them up correctly (which I’ll explain how to do in a moment).

“Wouldn’t we look cute on a wedding cake together?”

“Do you know karate? Because your body is really kickin’.”

“Your daddy must have been a baker, because you’ve got a nice set of buns.”

“You must be a hell of a thief, because you stole my heart from across the room.”

(Note: Don’t use this pick up line on women who are extremely attractive and KNOW it. This one is effective on a girl who is attractive, but is clearly NOT the best-looking girl in the place.)

Now here’s the next type of pick up lines. You can call these ones…

Pick Up Lines That Could Get You Slapped In The Face

You’ll want to be extremely cautious when using the following lines when you approach women. A woman with a sense of humor might find them amusing, but you also run the risk of getting hit or having a martini tossed in your face. (Especially if her boyfriend the UFC fighter happens to be standing nearby.) Like I said, be careful…

“Do you know what has 142 teeth and holds back the Incredible Hulk? [What?] My zipper.”

“Your daddy must play the trumpet, because he sure made me horny!”

“Is that a keg in your pants? Because I’d love to tap that ass.”

The Truth About Pick Up Lines

So are pick up lines something to be scorned? Would any REAL pick up artist deign to use them? I have authored a few books on picking up girls, which teach many different imaginative approaches to starting conversations with girls. I personally feel that if you’re learning how to approach women, using pick up lines is NOT the way to go.

I normally recommend that you use the “under the radar” style of opening conversations. What this essentially means is that you say (or ask) something clever when you approach women — a comment or question that catches her by surprise and engages her attention, without signalling your sexual interest. These methods of approaching women feel more casual and natural to both you and her.

I like to approach the girl and ask her a clever question, one that females are naturally going to have an opinion about.

Opener #1: “Hey, I have to get back to my friends but let me ask you something real quick — would you freak out if your boyfriend was invited to a bachelor party and you knew there would be strippers at the party? My friend Samantha asked me for my opinion.”

Opener #2: “Hey, help me settle a debate I’m having with my friends. How long do you need to be dating someone before you change your status on Facebook from “single” to “in a relationship?” Because my friend Jennifer has been going out with a guy for a month and SHE thinks it’s an exclusive thing, but he hasn’t changed his “single” status and she’s wondering if she should say something…”

These methods of approaching women are especially effective because they’re based on what I call “relationship grey areas.” Men and women tend to have their own ideas about what’s allowed in a relationship, and what is unacceptable. Here’s another line you can use when you approach women: “does it count as cheating if a guy has lunch with his ex-girlfriend, and doesn’t tell his new girlfriend about it?”

The bottom line is, when you are approaching women a good opener is going to make her WANT to respond. Here’s another line I use to approach women, which always seems to get a good reaction:

“Do I look gay? Because this guy was TOTALLY flirting with me in the men’s room a second ago. Do you think it’s because of my shirt?” (Or, “is it the way my ass looks in these jeans?”)

Those don’t count as “pick up lines,” really. But does this mean pick up lines are, by definition, a bad thing?

I’ve actually used some of the pick up lines I mentioned above to approach women, and they sparked a conversation and got me the result I wanted — which means I scored her phone number, or hooked up with her that night).

I showed a sense of humor by “confessing” that I had used a corny line to try to pick her up. After I said it, I followed up with “I know that TOTALLY sounded like a pick up line…but I want to talk to you for a minute and I couldn’t think of what else to say. My name’s Dean…”

At that point, I used my usual methods — I asked a few “strategic” questions to get her in a fun mindset, and sharing information about herself…I used tactics such as Teases, Hypotheticals and Cold Reads and at all times, I stayed in control of the interaction and guided it down the correct path.

Sometimes a really corny pick up line can actually be a fun way to kick off the conversation. The trick is knowing how to follow it up with something clever that makes her want to talk to you.

Or, you can always use this:

“You’re so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line.”

You can’t put a price tag on a line like that!

Now, before I explain how to FOLLOW UP and get her to start feeling curiosity and attraction, I really need to warn you about something…

The tactics you will learn in our FREE manual for approaching girls will affect women on a subconscious level and trigger their deepest desires. Please try to use this material responsibly, because it’s really powerful. These are easily the most incredibly effective techniques if you want to go beyond corny pick up lines, and make women feel hardcore sexual attraction to you.

So are you ready to start walking up and talking to women with absolute confidence, learn the exact opening line to use on women in any situation, and what to talk about with a girl to make her instantly attracted? Then download our best-selling guide to approaching women now!

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