The Ultimate Guide On How To Talk To Girls On Facebook

Sending the right message to a girl on facebook can be a daunting task for some. And it gets even more complicated if the girl looks like someone who guys follow around.

The Mindset

By default, men tend to take on the role of the pursuer. As for conversation skills, it can be greatly affected by how ones sees his value.

The Pursuer

As the pursuer, it falls unto you to do whatever it takes to get the girl. Sorry to burst your bubble, but 95% of the time, this approach does not work at all. Why? The thing is, women are attracted to men who emanates power. So if I were you, I’d ditch the “pursuer” approach.

How to Talk to Girls on Facebook

Pick up lines are awesome BUT using it online is not unless you’re a naturally gifted comedian or the girl personally knows you. Generally, ditch it. Dont fuss over what to say to her. Understanding the female psyche is key in getting a girl to notice you.

The first thing that you should understand about how to talk to girls on Facebook is knowing how to open her up and this is through neutral or flirt openers. As for me, I prefer using neutral openers.

Neutral openers require you to do the following:

1. Make an observation about her – say something about her profile picture, hair, clothes, etc.

2. Ask an opinion about something

3. Ask a question pertaining to the 2 mentioned above

What it does is give you a reason to talk to her without appearing like an online freak. When using neutral openers, trivial questions often get the girl’s attention. Questions pertaining to relationships like cheating and jealousy are usually good picks.

Neutral Opener Samples:

“I really like that color/dress/necklace on you. I?d love to know where you bought it because I need to pick up a birthday gift for my friend Michelle. I bet she’d love something like that.”

“Hi, you look like someone I can get a good opinion from. Do you think I should tell my friend Pia that I saw his boyfriend cuddling with another girl? I know the guy since we’ve become friends also and I do think this is not something serious. But I feel really bad for Pia. I think she deserves to know but at the same time, I don’t want to be labeled as the guy who ruined their relationship.”

When it comes to flirt openers, do not use it unless you have already made a connection with the girl.

Build Bonds First

If you want to meet girls using Facebook, then you must learn how to talk to them. First thing you must do is to get information about them. Start by sharing some interesting details about you and let her do the same. Avoid dead end questions like “What are your hobbies?” and go for open ended ones like “I bet you have a lot of fun interests that keeps you busy during weekends”

When talking to a girl both offline and online, avoid the following:

1. Questions answerable by a yes or a no

2. Apologizing for asking a question

3. Hitting on her before you could even establish a bond

4. Express interest from the get go – women are attracted to guys that are not lap dogs. So put a price on yourself.

You can also opt to go for the “Challenge and Push-Pull Method” which works for me everytime. If you want to become familiar with this method and use it in talking to girls on Facebook, then click this link.

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